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My self-summary
What's up! I'm Lee. I'm easygoing but passionate, an extroverted introvert, a spiritual atheist. I'm a musician, a big nerd of the arts and entertainment media (literature, shows, film, video games, and obviously music), and a good debater. Everyone tells me I look better in person than in my photos.

In relationships of any kind, be they platonic, business, or romantic, the absolute most important thing to me is open and honest communication. If you're not the open and honest type, I'm not interested, but if you are, let's talk.

Note: I probably won't message you first, because I know how many messages you get from a hundred guys a day, so you probably wouldn't even see my message in that mess anyway. Hit me up if you're interested and I'll write back.
What I’m doing with my life
I work a decent job full time and I'm in a band, chasing my creative dreams. Relaxation is important to me as well, so when I'm not at work or working on music, I like to take it easy and enjoy life.
I’m really good at
Singing, listening, conversation, debate, writing, problem-solving, and understanding. I have a strong knack for psychology and can read people like books; I'm very perceptive. I'm good at picking up new things quickly and getting very good at them, because I apply myself fully to everything I do and I don't half-ass anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height, smile, and intelligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Bill Hicks is my hero and biggest inspiration in life.

Books: The Mission of Art (Alex Grey), Be More Chill (Ned Vizzini), everything written by Neil Strauss, The God Delusion (Richard Dawkins), GANTZ (Hiroya Oku), Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus (John Gray), The Four Agreements (Don Miguel Ruiz), The Ethical Slut (Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy), all of Malcolm Gladwell's work, Rage (Stephen King writing as Richard Bachman) etc.

Movies: Everything by Don Bluth (especially The Land Before Time), American Beauty, everything Darren Aronofsky has ever made, Kiki's Delivery Service (and Miyazaki's work in general, but that one especially moved me), Donnie Darko, Eraserhead, Falling Down, all of Larry Clark's work, Edward Scissorhands, Leon/The Professional, Jacob's Ladder, Beavis and Butthead Do America, Fight Club, Grandma's Boy, American History X, Unleashed, Ong Bak: The Thai Warrior, Big Hero 6, Ghost, 300, everything Harmony Korine has worked on, I <3 Huckabees, Bloodsport, The Conjuring, Scott Pilgrim VS The World, Ghost, Kevin Smith's work, God Bless America, E.T., Chronicle, The King of Kongs: A Fistful of Quarters, Click, Wreck-It Ralph, etc.

Shows: Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, Game of Thrones, Six Feet Under, South Park, Naruto, Dragon Ball and DBZ, Cromartie High School, Strange Sex, Arrested Development, etc. Also youtube shows! Game Grumps, Cinephilia Anonymous, Continue?, Caddicarus, The Completionist, Peanut Butter Gamer, Jontron, Satchbag's Goods, Josiah McDaniel, Did You Know Gaming?, Matthewmatosis, Smooth McGroove, Yungtown, Egoraptor, and Ninja Sex Party.

Music: Honestly anything with good melody and soul. Some examples: Tool, The Dresden Dolls, Bill Hicks (yes, he made music as well, not just comedy...and his music is truly beautiful), 3, CeeLo Green, Manowar, Editors, Jason Mraz, Ninja Sex Party, AC/DC, Daft Punk, Eminem, Joe Inoue, Powerman 5000, Cicada, Alice in Chains, BT, Michael Jackson, Puscifer, Chicago, Static-X, Jack Johnson, HIM, A Perfect Circle, Radiohead, Pantera, MIKA, Liz Phair, Papa Roach, Queen, Fall Out Boy, Rob Zombie, Motörhead, Anamanaguchi, Mötley Crüe, Fucktard, Does It Offend You Yeah?, Weerd Science, Muse, Alter Bridge, etc.

Food: Love sweet foods, love salty foods, hate spicy foods. I love simple shit like burgers and pasta. Not a big fan of complicated dishes.

Video games: The MOTHER/EarthBound series, the Metal Gear series, Silent Hills original through 4, all the Mario Kart games, the Super Smash Bros. series, Super Street Fighter IV, Soul Calibur II (GC version), Tekken 5, the original PS Crash Bandicoot games, Pokemon (generations one and two), The Last of Us, F-Zero GX, ICO and Shadow of the Colossus, the Kirby series, the Twisted Metal series, Mortal Kombat (2011), the God of War series (except for Ascension), The Legend of Zelda (not all of them, but my favorites are Majora's Mask and Wind Waker), the Donkey Kong Country series, main series Mario games from Super Mario 64 and earlier, TMNT games on the NES and SNES, Limbo, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Music, passion, laughter, touch, good conversation, and goals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self-improvement and personal growth. Love. Music. The current state of the world and my place in it. Art that moves me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing band stuff
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have tattoos. If you want to know more private things than that, you need to get to know me.
You should message me if
If I've intrigued you. Don't be scared to make a move, just message me, you pansy! Taking initiative immediately earns you points with me. Life's too short to be scared of making connections.

That said, don't waste my time unless you're legitimately interested in the possibility of meeting. So many women on this site flirt, set up a date, then cancel before the date happens and start ignoring you. I don't tolerate games like that. Message me if you want to talk and meet up to get to know one another.