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My self-summary
What's up! I'm Lee: easygoing but passionate, an extroverted introvert, a spiritual atheist. I'm a musician, editor, big nerd of the arts and creative media (literature, shows, film, video games, and obviously music), good debater, libra, and Gryffindor. Gender equality is a big deal to me. I'm very passionate about the things I believe in, which makes me a polarizing individual; you'll either love me or hate me.

I'd like to find a woman who is physically and mentally healthy, nerdy and intellectual, financially stable, enjoys staying in and relaxing as much as she enjoys being social, and has a fun personality. I suppose someone much like myself, now that I think about it! Openness and good communication are vital traits as well. Not interested in a woman with a million problems. If we're going to go out, you need to be level-headed.

I can't take a selfie worth a damn lol, everyone tells me I look better in person.

Not necessarily actively seeking this out, but I am open to poly/open relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
I work a good job and I'm in a serious band with serious goals, so I stay busy. However, relaxation is important to me as well, so when I'm not busy with one of those things, I like to take it easy and enjoy life. I've recently started taking improv classes as well, and I'm having a lot of fun with that!
I’m really good at
Singing, listening, conversation, debate, writing, problem-solving, and understanding. I have a deep understanding of psychology and I'm very perceptive, so I can read people like books. I'm good at picking up new things quickly and getting very good at them, because I apply myself fully to everything I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe I should ask you that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Bill Hicks is my hero and biggest inspiration in life.

Books: The Mission of Art (Alex Grey), Be More Chill (Ned Vizzini), everything written by Neil Strauss, The God Delusion (Richard Dawkins), GANTZ (Hiroya Oku), Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus (John Gray), The Four Agreements (Don Miguel Ruiz), The Ethical Slut (Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy), all of Malcolm Gladwell's work, Rage (Stephen King writing as Richard Bachman) etc.

Movies: Everything by Don Bluth (especially The Land Before Time), American Beauty, everything Darren Aronofsky has ever made, Kiki's Delivery Service (and Miyazaki's work in general, but that one especially moved me), Donnie Darko, Eraserhead, Falling Down, all of Larry Clark's work, Edward Scissorhands, Leon/The Professional, Jacob's Ladder, Beavis and Butthead Do America, Fight Club, Grandma's Boy, American History X, Unleashed, Ong Bak: The Thai Warrior, Big Hero 6, Ghost, 300, everything Harmony Korine has worked on, I <3 Huckabees, Bloodsport, The Conjuring, Scott Pilgrim VS The World, Ghost, Kevin Smith's work, God Bless America, E.T., Chronicle, The King of Kongs: A Fistful of Quarters, Click, Wreck-It Ralph, etc.

Shows: Dexter, Rick and Morty, Game of Thrones, Six Feet Under, South Park, Naruto, Dragon Ball and DBZ, Cromartie High School, Strange Sex, Arrested Development, etc. Also youtube shows! Game Grumps, Cinephilia Anonymous, Continue?, Caddicarus, The Completionist, Peanut Butter Gamer, Jontron, Satchbag's Goods, Josiah McDaniel, Did You Know Gaming?, Matthewmatosis, Smooth McGroove, Yungtown, Egoraptor, and Ninja Sex Party.

Music: 3, Tool, The Dresden Dolls (anything Amanda Palmer does, really, CeeLo Green, Manowar, Editors, Jason Mraz, Ninja Sex Party, AC/DC, Daft Punk, Eminem, Joe Inoue, Powerman 5000, Cicada, Alice in Chains, BT, 30 Seconds to Mars, Michael Jackson (and of course The Jackson 5 and The Jacksons), Puscifer, Chicago, Static-X, Jack Johnson, HIM, A Perfect Circle, Radiohead, Pantera, MIKA, Liz Phair, Papa Roach, Queen, Fall Out Boy, Motörhead, Anamanaguchi, Mötley Crüe, Fucktard, Does It Offend You Yeah?, Weerd Science, Muse, Alter Bridge and everything Myles Kennedy does, etc.

Food: I love sweet foods, love salty foods, hate spicy foods. I'm a big fan of simple things like burgers, pasta, fruits, veggies, etc.

Video games: The MOTHER/EarthBound series, the Metal Gear series, Silent Hills original through 4, all the Mario Kart games, the Super Smash Bros. series, Super Street Fighter IV, Soul Calibur II (GC version), Tekken 5, the original PS Crash Bandicoot games, Pokemon (generations one and two), The Last of Us, F-Zero GX, ICO and Shadow of the Colossus, the Kirby series, the Twisted Metal series, Mortal Kombat (2011), the God of War series (except for Ascension), The Legend of Zelda (not all of them, but my favorites are Majora's Mask and Wind Waker), the Donkey Kong Country series, main series Mario games from Super Mario 64 and earlier, TMNT games on the NES and SNES, Limbo, etc.
Six things I could never do without
Music, passion, laughter, physical intimacy, good conversation, and goals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self-improvement and personal growth. Music. Love. The current state of the world and my place in it. Art that moves me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I've been going to improv shows at the National Comedy Theatre.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have tattoos. If you want to know more private things than that, you need to get to know me.
You should message me if
If I've intrigued you. Don't be scared to make a move. Just message me, you pansy! ;D Taking initiative immediately earns you points with me. Life's too short to be scared of making connections.

That said, don't waste my time unless you're legitimately interested in the possibility of meeting. So many women on this site flirt, set up a date, then cancel before the date happens and start ignoring you. I don't tolerate games like that. Message me if you want to talk and meet up to get to know one another.
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