48Hudson, United States
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My self-summary
Intelligent, witty, caring, empathetic, soft hearted, sometimes stubborn, creative, smart, or sarcastic but overall I'm a realist .... Life is all about choices ... choices made well, choices missed, and choices made poorly .... and we all have some in each category.

I am Self Employed in the same career for 20+ years, Single (divorced since 2006) with 4 boys ... 3 of my own and a 4th stepson that I have helped raise for most of his life, so our household is testosterone driven .... Not looking for a replacement mother for my kids (they have one) and raising them is something I enjoy.
What I’m doing with my life
Well let's see ... I raise, teach, and take care of my kids, work, go to my boys sport's activities, hang out with friends, entertain people, read voraciously, cook, do most of my own charcuterie, surf the web, learn about new things, go out on my boat, fish, hunt, S-l-o-w-l-y remodel my house, play poker, sometimes a video game with my kids, and all kinds of other things .... but I like to veg out in front of the TV for a movie too .... not into the bar scene.
I’m really good at
Fun ... Funny ... Great dad (been a single dad for 11 years raising my boys) .... Great cook, self employed, Outdoorsman, love my friends, playing cards, get togethers, cook outs... Etc ...

I'm honest, always try to do the right things ..loyal... Generous ... kinda a sarcastic Boy Scout ... . I can find humor in almost anything, I have strong parental values, my kids think I'm the smartest person they've ever met (I have them ssssooo snowballed)
Ask me whatever you might want to know.
I'm not a paying member if you want to know more message me ...
I'll answer you ... If you have an interest let me know ... If not good luck on your search. Thanks !
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall .... I'm a BIG guy (think linebacker which is intimidating to some) ... I have a good smile .... nice eyes .... I have a nickel sized patch of white hair on the back of my head since I was a teen .... who knows what you'll notice first....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fiction, Fantasy/Sci-fi, Horror, Informational, I always have between 3-6 books going at the same time ...
Apollo 13, Harry Potter, Forest Gump, Looper, MIB, Taken, thrillers, comedies, a good horror film, as long as it's thought provoking, or entertaining I'll watch it ....
80's hair bands, Hard Rock, classical, almost any type of music unless it's obnoxious ....
Ribs, Pizza, Steak, Pasta, Chinese food, Mexican, all kinds of interesting things ....
I don't know .... to many to list on each subject .... just ask and I'll answer
Six things I could never do without
Morning coffee ... cheese ... chocolate ..... laughing ..... what else ? hhhmmm .... I mean I like my career, my friends, my boat, etc .... but seriously what could I never do without?

Making sure my kids, friends, family, or significant other are safe and well would top the list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything ....
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with some friends, watching a movie, playing poker, whatever sounds good at the time ....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There's lots of stuff ..... once I know/trust you
You should message me if
Figured I should give some idea of what I'm looking for ...

Communication, honesty, intelligence, sense of humor ... A great butt ... the answer to life, the universe, and everything else .... ?
Seriously ?!

Ok really this is difficult as I find different things attractive in women, I can't paint the perfect pic of the greatest woman ever ... I haven't met her yet ... either we click, or we don't ... I guess that's my criteria

I'm not into head games, being the "other" guy, or partying like I was 21 anymore ... I am generally a happy person, and since I don't "medicate" to get through life meaning if you believe that you can't face the day without mental Meds, or drinking yourself into a numb state ... I hope things get better for you, but I'm probably not your guy ...

Ask me anything you would like to.... say "Hi" .... tell me something you liked in my profile, or tell me to get bent .... it's up to you
The two of us