I am a lover of women. I'm seeking love, romance and friendship with a bright, good-humored, affectionate, youthful (spirit OK), independent, self-confident partner for joy, connection, passion and a heckuva good time. It is important to me that you love and relish intimacy, sensuality, kissing, affection and lovemaking and are healthy and whole around your sexuality.
My cottage in Maui Meadows burned down Thanksgiving. I just leased a new place above Wailuku on a mac nut orchard and I have put in a fruit and veggie orchard on part of the property. Can't wait to eat more than zucchini! I feel like I have a whole new life ahead of me. I wonder who will show up to fill it.
I don't have any children of my own, but a bonus of your children or grandchildren would be a joy to share time with. Well, if they check their weapons at the door. And I've been Unka Maury before and can provide references. Oh, you can ask my dog Beck as well.
I love to dance, especially Ecstatic Dance and have recently started 'Dance on the Beach' where I live on Maui. Please go to EcstaticDanceKihei on Facebook for more info or upcoming dates. At a club, I'm likely to beat the youngsters to the dance floor and be dancing to the last song - in the front row if the music is good.
I am polyamorous and I am interested in having an open relationship. I believe that I have the time, personality, compersion, relationship skills, means and romance/sex drive, to make this work. Of course I’m not asking you to be exclusively with me. There is enough love to go around and we should all fill our lives with as much as we want and can create. Still here?
If we talk and decide to meet, OK with me if over a coffee, a drink, or a walk on the beach. Maybe it would include smokin' a bowl of herbal delights. Mmmm.
I value intense conversation leading to a deepening richness, also need easygoing fun. I've got a great sense of humor, successful in business and now retired and financially secure, hobby as a glass artist (no studio space right now. wah).
Volunteering with environmental groups, takes some of my time, but I'm cutting back to enjoy life more. Got any ideas you'd like to share?
I enjoy a wide variety of indoor/outdoor activities such as beach stuff, cooking, dining out-cheap/chic, dancing to just about anything with a beat, playing in my new fruit/veggie orchard (it needs a name. any ideas?) motorcycle riding, local/foreign travel (best trip was "Soviet Union" in '90 with an arts group), personal growth (lite, not as a career), new adventures - which we should share some of with each other.
I'm open to creating new models for relationships that work. What's important to YOU?
I'm ready for some healthy, intimate connection and you get bonus points if you come from a functional family (yeah, right) or are dealing with what you got (baggage down to carry on, pls). Communication, honesty and the ability to be uninhibited with the right person are important to me. I've got a rich, full life and just want the cup to overflow. Of late I’ve been told that I’m a particularly authentic and vulnerable male. I like those ‘compliments’.
Care to join me?
Walking on the beach, riding a motorcycle, spending time with friends, drinking, dining, honing my OKC profile, seeking more quality connection. I also got a Boston Terrier puppy in January and he is a delicious handful. I love my new best friend, but prefer the kisses and licks of female companionship.
I attended a HAI workshop in 2012 and will be doing a Quodoushka workshop end of October 2013.
Networking, communicating, making people laugh, being creative, being loving, affectionate and creating intimacy. Choosing menu items to share.
Good at moving through life effectively and efficiently, sometimes so focused I miss the world around. But with a touch or a word, you can bring me present.
I like to help people with their computers, their dreams and the business plans needed to fulfill some of them, a good listener who sometimes slips into Mr Fixit mode when not asked.
What I'd like you to see is that I'm honest and someone that would be enriching to engage with.
I like most all kinds of food, but mostly prefer to make healthy choices. I don't always succeed and try not to beat myself up.
I have a note on my iPhone called Cocktails Anyone? and I use it to record favorite cocktails at Maui restaurants.
I'm an adventurous cook. How about you?
and music music music (I love it loud in the car with the top down)
You will be amazed at the depth of communication and connection I strive for. I'm an open book and hope you will be as well. I'm discovering an interest in different ways of feeling and expressing love. Care to share your thoughts and maybe do some exploring?
I really like to kiss for an hour or so.
So, now how many things did I admit to? I love sex, am a bad poet. And it’s always 420 somewhere. You in?
Actually, I just realized none of that is really private. The most private thing I'm willing to admit is how 'scared' I am about the bold approach I'm taking here. I've always thought online dating was about both excluding and including people. I guess this'll do the trick.
Oh, and I didn't make my bed today.