58Wichita, United States
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My self-summary
First and foremost "I'm Not Perfect" I'm human with regular feelings and emotions like everyone else. Somewhere out there I know is the man for me who will understand me like no other. Games are for children, I'm far from a child.
Mother of 4 grown children, grandmother of 6 grandchildren with another 1 in January. I love each and every one of them with all my heart. yet there is that other special love that is missing from my life and thats why I'm out here looking.
I say what I mean and mean what I say. Not here for the games of the mind or heart as they hurt and God wouldn't hurt another soul that way. In No Way am I looking for a sugar daddy or a man to support me but real love of the Heart.

At this point in life anyone who has lived has some kind of baggage they carry with them. Its all up to us if we bring it forward into a new life with a special one or leave it in the past and just learn our lesson. I chose to learn my lesson and not make the same mistakes in my future.

Sharing a experience I just had on here OkCupid. A man sent me a message of how pretty he thought I was and he wanted to get to know me. Nothing wrong with this so far but then it took a turn to Very bad. He was looking for a mother for his 2 children, his daughter (12 or 13) who was at the time on an excursion in Itatly (right). and his son who he said was in Canada with his mother then said in his house with grandma. He was working in Ireland at this time as well.
Well he told me he had a facebook account as well so I decided to look it up. Found it sent a friend request and he accepted. This is where it gets very BAD..He also had 2 other women he had aparently also asked to be his childrens mother as well and they both made comments about it. All within this month of December. Yes i tried to contact both but only 1 answered me back telling me she had just meet him as well and was getting to know him. Well he told me they were old friends....Go Figure??? He tried to tell me not to ask his friends about his Christmas Plans (aparently with me that I didn't know about either) he ended up getting so mad at me that he threatened my life as well. Everything had an excuse.
NOT the way to find someone to care and love your children or love for yourself. I just wanted to share this.....
What I’m doing with my life
Taking it 1 day at a time....opening my Present every morning from God....putting the past away.....waiting on the future if it's God's Will.....
I’m really good at
Aparently I'm really good at growing a couple inches then losing them again. LOL
last time i went for a physical I was measured at 4"11, yesterday I wnet to a different Dr. and measured at 5"...

the incrediable shrinking, no growing, no shrinking, no growning Woman....
The first things people usually notice about me
Would have to be my Blue Eyes, Second would be my honesty in telling everything, which by the way gets me into trouble most of the time in some form or another. I can keep my friends secretes but I believe in telling my own life story so you know who I am and where I have come from. Lots of guys can't handel that. so be it. they will never know the wonderful soul they let slip by.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
don't really read that much anymore but the best one I ever read was "A Knight In Shinning Armor".
Movies would fall under City of Angels, Must Love Dogs, You've Got Mail", "Sleepless In Seattle". Love stories I can totally get into the person and feel what they are feeling and cry or laugh or be what they are.
Like any music but rap.
Food would be almost anything but favorite meat is chicken. I love to cook.
Six things I could never do without
Lucy (my dog)
Self Worth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The Truth Shall Set You Free. Why not just start out being truthful and go from there?
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting watching my shows on tv. Would rather be sitting with someone holding them but till God sends them into my path I will be content.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Would be Pillow Talk
You should message me if
Only if you want to get to know me and are real, don't say things you don't mean and don't be from another country.
The two of us