27 Bellevue, United States
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My self-summary
I am a literate, elegant gentleman of impeccable taste.

I'm at least reasonably intelligent, and well adjusted. I think I am INTJ, but it's been a long time and I may have remembered a letter incorrectly. What's a letter or two between friends, right?

I'm self-aware, phlegmatic, and typically have my mind focused on the big picture rather than the minutia. It takes active effort of my part to balance that particular inclination in order to live more in the moment. I have a feeling I should probably try to be with someone inclined the other way, but I certainly have no idea if that's the case. Who am I make such bold psychological proclamations. Who am I? Indeed :*( ... :)

I just moved back to WA and am working at a company that makes SPACE SHIPS. Update: not liking that sweet space ship job so much. I'm building a new dating site in my spare time.

If this self-summary hasn't been arousing, then I don't know what would be.
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time, and then working full time at home on my dating site project. Before that, I'd been doing some creative writing with one of my best buds. The first project was a screen play that's a rip off of Titan AE, Sky Blue, and Atlantis.

I've been working on my own dating website for a while now, and I've recently discovered twitch. I like it because I can sort of listen to someone else playing a game while I work. I like playing games through another person while I get work done. It makes the work less work-ie.
I’m really good at
I'm good at boxing (though no longer practicing), programming (or maybe just problem solving), empathy (and reading people), and dry humor. That's a pretty honest appraisal I think. I am genuinely good at those things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty quiet until I get a read on the people in any given encounter. Maybe they notice that. Or perhaps, they are shocked beyond comprehension by my external beauty. That might be the third thing though. The first is probably the aura of intelligence and goodness surrounding me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just finished reading Carl Sagan's Pale Blue Dot which was fantastic and 1Q84 which was also fantastic. Now I'm reading Of Human Bondage which is also very good so far. It's hard for me to pick favorites. I love the Harry Potter series. Game of thrones, Avatar TLAB, Home Movies, Tim and Eric Awesome Show Great Job!, Sherlock, Star Trek TNG, i Claudius, Shogun, and TOS are all fantastic! and I've been enjoying Jensen Sportag and RAC (music). I'm going through a post-grunge/90's kick. Chrono Trigger is my favorite game of all time. I am rather fond of sushi, baked goods, and sake.
The six things I could never do without
Real answer:

Unreal Answer:
- Computers
- Music
- Books / Movies / Games
- Riotous mirthful laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a pensive fellow, I think about all sorts of things all the time. It's exhausting really.

OKC should have "team quickmatch" and "capture the flag" and "death match"
On a typical Friday night I am
Tired as hell, and I'm not going to take it anymore. I'm usually working on my new website project. You know, the dating one i've mentioned twice now.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a super private person and I feel like this question requires a fun answer, but nothing really springs to mind. Sorry, lady.

Actually, I'm the Supreme Being. Return my map.
You should message me if
Well I have three thoughts on the matter:

The Realist:
1) If we're real honest though, OKC culture doesn't have has a lot of women messaging men. You're probably reading this because I messaged you.

The Tactician:
2) There are some folk who will stop talking to you if you ask them to meet up too soon. There are some folk who will stop talking to you if you wait too long to ask to meet up. Just so's you know, if I've messaged you, it means I'd meet up anytime, but am not in any rush if you aren't comfortable.

The Philosopher:
3) I think people mostly know what they want, but seldom know what they need. I go through profiles, I know when I think a girl is attractive, has interests that intersect with my own, or has a similar temperament. The truth is, even with this information I have no idea what sort of person would make me (and hopefully some hypothetical goddess) the happiest.

A little addendum here:
I recently read this:
and I guess it must have resonated on some level. So I guess message me if you think "fuck yes," or "hmm, I'd like to know more," or "gee, I bet we could be friends," or "hey fuck that guy! I'm gonna give him a piece of my mind!"