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My self-summary
I grew up in Pacific North West on a wee island with no electricity. My skill sets are very diverse. I know many irrelevant facts and love to teach things to interested people.

I have a passion for cars, but recently traded my Mustang GT for a Prius (yay adulting). I still very much love weekend drives. Anytime I have to take a trip I always look for the twistiest route. If you enjoy spontaneous road trips, I'm the "guy" for you.

I listen to NPR, read slashdot, Fark, The Oatmeal, and Savage Love. I'm fond of the Oxford Comma, and The Onion. I'm a voracious reader.

I'm learning more and more about myself. I've found that each time I peel away a layer, I find another one. I'm an Infinite Onion. I detest small talk, preferring deeper, meaningful conversation. Being vulnerable. Sharing myself. Taking the risks involved with getting to know other humans. Recognizing we are all on a journey; living, learning, exploring, and dreaming. I yearn to grow together with people.

I wish the "liking star" didn't cover the match %.
What I’m doing with my life
8-5ing. Hoping to rediscover balance.
I’m really good at
Listening, driving, fixing anything, computers, cribbage, massage, cooking, letter writing. Folding fitted sheets. Getting pho on my shirt.

I was recently informed that I am a World Class Cuddler and have references available upon request.
The first things people usually notice about me
Ruddy face and bushy hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is a work in progress.

I read mostly nonfiction, but enjoy a smattering of science fiction from time to time.

Authors: Orenstein, Jon Ronson, Shulgin, Pratchett, Hitchens, Plait, Roach, Heinlein, Lovecraft, Dawkins, Lovelock, Shapin, Dan Savage,

Books: Moregasm; The Ethical Slut; Come as You Are; The Men Who Stare at Goats; So You've Been Publicly Shamed; Chasing the Scream; In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts; 5 Very Good Reasons to Punch a Dolphin in the Mouth; Taber's.

I'm very much a fan of Marion Zimmer Bradley's Darkover. They seem to be my go to for resetting my enjoyment of fiction.

Movies: Deadpool, Cloud Atlas, Warm Bodies, Life of Pi, Fight Club, Lord of War, Memento, and many others. I'm fond of gritty dramas. Anything Coen. Serenity.

Shows: The Chef's Table, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Stargate, The Wire, Firefly, IT Crowd, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Walking Dead.

I enjoy most kinds of music except christian rock and soprano sax smooth jazz.

Food: omnivorous. Love Asian food, especially Vietnamese.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to approach people on OKC, cars, computers, sex, mindfulness, social justice, sex, driving twisty roads, conversations over coffee, learning new things, sex, cuddling, meeting/connecting with people, spontaneous road trips, sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Resting from intense weeks. Perhaps bonding with others over a rowdy game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
'The most private thing I'm willing to share... Here:'

I use neck ties as belts.

Myers-Briggs based testing showed: INFP

I share a previously private thing right up front: I'm intersex.
You should message me if
If you like to talk, dream, explore, go for road trips, enjoy meeting people, and want to compare tattoos.

***Note: If you have lots of drinking pictures in your album, there's a good chance we won't jive. I'm fine with my significant other(s) imbibing. It can't be your primary hobby.***