59Tacoma, United States
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My self-summary
I am 59 y.o., 5'9", 188 pounds (last time I was weighed in early August), 100% clean & sober for 28 years, fairly low income (but relatively stable), intelligent, communicative, & a general nice guy.

I'm not a paying user, so I won't know who sent a like unless you write.

I would like to find a perfectly imperfect life partner (-: Keeping in mind that It really matters who YOU are & whether we are a potential fit; true intimacy is what I want at this phase in my life, in all areas.

I am pretty far to the left politically: if you are a Fox Newsy or support Donald the clown, we will NOT get along.

Oh, & like myself, it would help if you also worshiped the great God Kitty Cat!

While I would prefer to not be a total couch potato, truth is my favorite things these days are sedentary: music, movies (usually classic), my cats, & intimacy of all types with the right person. I like to read also, & I play on the net. I would like to get back to walking more.

I don't totally agree with OKC's assessment regarding my "Personality traits"; especially "less giving" "less friendly" & "less good natured"!

I also answered the majority of the OKC questions several years ago; some of my answers would be different today; but I'm not bored enough to redo them all!
What I’m doing with my life
Successfully dealing with a challenging medical issue & a huge dietary lifestyle change.

Working very actively on lowering my stress level.

Trying to figure out why no one is stopping Trump from being the most harmful & hateful president in US history.

(Do the last 2 statements contradict each other??!)
I’m really good at
Getting along with Felines
Computers. I'm great at cleaning (mostly other people's) viruses, lol!
Problem solving - helping to find a solution that works for all
Honoring Commitments/Being Accountable
Being Open & Honest
Can have a high level of positive intensity & affection with the right partner.
I think I can be pretty funny, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy many types of Books (thank god for the Kindle!), classic ( & a little bit of newer) film, a little TV (mostly classic series) & the Seahawks.

Music is & was my first love. I am a former professional Musician. I prefer a combination of emotion AND talent. I DON'T Like: Hip Hop, (c)Rap, etc; Country, Opera, Hard core punk & metal, & most "lowest common denominator" pop. Currently in rotation in the car cd changer: A best of 2 cd set from Duncan Browne/Metro, part of a 1978 Grateful Dead concert, a live 70's Bruce Cockburn album, a Country Joe & The Fish best of, & a Frank Zappa instrumental compilation. Also really been enjoying the new Paula Cole Ballads album this week.

Food: These days what I enjoy the most & what is medically appropriate for me to eat aren't often identical (lol). I recently had to make a (probable) permanent major dietary changes due to a medical issue (a simplistic though not totally accurate description would be Salmon + Vegan). This would likely not impact a partner, other than we may be eating differing meals. At least I am eating extremely healthy these days (& losing weight as a bonus)! I used to be a great cook, though I'm somewhat out of practice.
Six things I could never do without
1. My Cat Georgy (in my opinion cats are the Universe's gift to the human race)

2. Health

3. Just enough money to have a sense of safety.

4. Peace & Love (the things my generation once stood for in the 60's).

5. A safe place for me & my kitty to live

6. Happiness (& that mythical fountain of youth) would be pretty cool, too!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Personal growth.
How to make life better (both mine & all people's)
How to enjoy my advancing age (so far it's a bit of a challenge)
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to music, playing on the computer, or watching a movie at home.

I'd really enjoy new friends &/or a new significant other to spend that time with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me!!!! (Once I know you I'm an open book)
You should message me if
Ladies, if I sound interesting to you, please don't hesitate to write.
I have a lot to offer to the right person.

I would appreciate it if you contact me that you're within no more than about 50 miles.
The two of us