58 Tacoma, United States
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My self-summary
I am 58 y.o., 100% clean & sober for almost 27 years, fairly low income (but relatively stable), intelligent, communicative, & a general nice guy. I'm having some issues accepting my advancing age.

I'm not a paying user, so I won't know who sent a like unless you write.

While I would prefer to not be a total couch potato, truth is my favorite things are sedentary: music, movies (usually classic), my cats, & intimacy of all types with the right person. I like to read also, & I play on the net.

I would like to find a perfectly imperfect life partner (-: Keeping in mind that It really matters who YOU are & whether we are a potential fit; true intimacy is what I want at this phase in my life, in all areas.

I am pretty far to the left politically: if you are a Fox Newsy or support Donald the clown, we will NOT get along.

Oh, & like myself, you must worship the great God Kitty Cat!
What I’m doing with my life
Getting used to my recent move to 98404. Working very actively on lowering my stress level. Wanting both personal (& world) change for the better. Ironically, I don't tend to do change well, but this sort of change I really want!
I’m really good at
Getting along with Felines
Computers. I'm great at cleaning (mostly other people's) viruses, lol!
Problem solving - helping to find a solution that works for all
Honoring Commitments/Being Accountable
Being Open & Honest
Can have a high level of positive intensity & affection with the right partner.
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy many types of Books (thank god for the Kindle!), classic ( & a little bit of newer) film, a little TV (mostly classic series) & the Seahawks.

Music is & was my first love. I am a former professional Musician. I prefer a combination of emotion AND talent. I DON'T Like: Hip Hop, (c)Rap, etc; Country, Opera, Hard core punk & metal, & most "lowest common denominator" pop.

Food: Most things that aren't horribly sweet (unless they use a TRUE natural sweetener). Would prefer to eat "Upper class"; but those kinda $'s aren't available to me today, & that's ok. I used to be a great cook, though I'm terribly out of practice.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Cats (in my opinion cats are the Universe's gift to the human race; though sometimes they seem to think they are God!)

2. Health

3. Enough money to survive with some comfort.

4. Peace & Love (the things my generation PRETENDED to stand for in the 60's). I say "pretended" as my generation produced Bush Jr, both Clintons, Trumpy The Clown, Obama, & the rise of the giant evil corporations.

5. A safe place for me & my kitties to live

6. Happiness (& that mythical fountain of youth) would be pretty cool, too!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Personal growth.
How to make life better (both mine & all people's)
How to enjoy my advancing age (so far it's a challenge)
The nightmarish leaves dropping from a Magnolia tree in my yard (sigh)
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to music, playing on the computer, or watching a movie at home.

I'd really enjoy new friends &/or a new significant other to spend that time with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me!!!! (Once I know you I'm an open book)
You should message me if
Ladies, if I sound interesting to you, please don't hesitate to write.
I have a lot to offer to the right person.

I would appreciate it if you contact me that you're within about 50 miles. While I haven't fallen for it; I seem to have become a target of the Romanian scammers; so if you don't live fairly close I'm likely going to be a bit suspicious.