33Joliet, United States
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My self-summary
I'm anything but perfect but hopefully I'm also very real. I can be a hopeless romantic when the mood takes me or cynical when I'm having a bad day.
I tend to overthink, but I'm still fairly down to earth. I like tons of geeky things, but I'm not obsessed with any one thing. I can be awkward sometimes but I've had other people say I'm clever and funny.
I'm a study in contrasts. I can be the "Life of the Party" sometimes. Other times I just wanna relax and be boring. I can talk theology/philosophy and I can joke around like I'm back in high-school. I can cheer on my sports teams. (Here we go Cardinals!) and I can geek out about RPGs and video games. I like to think I keep life "balanced." I really like to do new things but barely get to. (this includes meeting new people, hence OKCupid.)

I really care about living honestly. You have to be real, too many people are constantly fake. I hate being lied to and feel bad when I have to hold things back. I know that pouring your heart out and sharing deeply isn't always the right thing to do, but hiding the truth feels wrong.

I'm a believer in Christ and that is important to me, but I try not to be a jerk about it. It's not like anybody listens to belligerent people anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working in retail management. I used to want to be a novelist but these days I'm just trying to keep moving forward. I still like to write but it's more casually.
I would like to open my own business someday.
I’m really good at
Writing. (Or rather I'm terrible but people keep saying its pretty good, so I should do it more) Listening. Reading. Board Games. Being Meta. Collectible Card Games. General nerdom.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a goofball. I think too much. I'm kind of a Geek/Nerd/whatever.

Physically it's my "sea blue" eyes and dark hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've read a lot of Fantasy novels. Lord of the Rings, The Saga of Recluce, Drizz't, Game of Thrones, The Wheel of Time, The Green Rider, "Memory, Sorrow and Thorn." A lot more... (I've read a few of the Harry Potter novels, but when they came out I was way past YA fiction. Please don't crucify me.)

I love Star Wars. Marvel Films are fun. I occasionally enjoy a "bad" Kung-fu flick. Really enjoy actually clever comedy and really anything fun and action-oriented.

I Netflix. A list of a few fully binged shows: Young Justice, The Ranch, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. , That 70's Show, HIMYM, All the marvel exclusives, a few animes, Psych.

I like a lot of different music. Symphonic Metal, Indie Folk, Alternative, Southern rock, Celtic Rock, 90's pop-punk, Elctro-Swing, regular-Swing and classic rock. On a lesser level: Classical, OST, EDM, Country, Oldies, Hip-Hop, traditional celtic.

As for food, I don't do onions, or rather they do terrible things to my stomach. I do however usually find something I like at most places. A really good burger is probably my favorite though.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
way too many things: faith, philosophy, games, writing, life the universe and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working 1/2 of fridays. Other times out playing games or hanging with friends. If all else fails, video games or TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't live up to my own standards. I often fail at doing what I know is right.
You should message me if
You're a geek and a Christian. We'll probably hit it off.
The two of us