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My self-summary
First things first, I'm polyamorous. If you don't know what that is, I am happy to answer questions.

I'm married to a wonderful man (AverageJoe33), I'm bi. We firmly believe that a person is capable of having feelings for more than one person. We practice that lifestyle, with caution, and have had few problems. Our secret is communication. We tell each other everything. I think communication is important... no... necessary, for any relationship to work. Coupled with complete, and some times brutal, honesty, we have become the strongest, happiest, healthiest couple I've ever known.

At the moment, I'm looking for friends with whom I share common interests. I have so much going on that I don't really feel I have time for more. I have three kids, so you must like children. I also have 3 cats and a very intrusive dog, so you must like animals, as well. I play video games, watch movies, go on nerdy adventures, read a lot, cuddle a lot, play with the kids, am an avid runner, am an exercise junkie, am a coffee addict, collect weird shit, love thrift shopping, love DIY, am a cheapskate, and so many other things that I love to share.

About me...I am going to be a mental health professional, physically active, a mom, a lover of coffee and live music, educated, slightly less than romantic but I make up for it with my die-hard friendship. I'm brutally honest, excitable, fun, have an amazing work ethic, and am not at all shy. I can make anyone comfortable. My mother tells me I know no strangers. It's true, I'm comfortable in a room full of strangers and I'll leave with friends. I talk a lot, and fast, to anyone who will listen. I love people! I love making people laugh. Now, most people stop here, sharing only the most awesome things about themselves. I won't insult you with false images. I have plenty of flaws. I like perfection, I get bitchy if I'm going to be late (ask my husband, he is routinely 15 minute behind), I smell AWFUL when I sweat, I do not procrastination and will get snippy if I see it. I have a habit of cutting people off mid-sentence. It's not because I want to be rude. I'm so excited about my thought I don't want to lose it. I am slightly compulsive and annoying with my fitness thing.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working as a certified personal trainer working on building my clientele here, since we relocated. I'm also entering the mental health field. I am attending college (again) studying for my psychology doctorate.

Beyond that, I'm always striving to be a better person. I think life is a constant stream of lessons to be learned. I'm doing my best to pay attention.

I'm always looking to the next big goal.
I’m really good at
Sweating, eating, crafts, cooking, running, reading people, making friends, air hockey, reusing typical trash items for something useful (i.e. toilet paper rolls and dryer lint make excellent fire starters), building fires, making coffee (trained barista)... and I'm sure there's more stuff I'm good at!

I'm really good at making even the most shy people feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I would say my big smile. I almost always have it on. After that, it's probably my eyes. They're a mix between blue and hazel and almond in shape. Makes it hard to guess my ethnicity. Before you start the guessing game - I'm white. A blend of Irish and Italian that gives me pale skin, bright eyes and great hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like science fiction, fantasy, comedy, biographies, fitness, nutrition, psychology, nature, documentaries and most things that require an imagination or educate the reader/viewer.

I would go into specific books, movies, shows, etc. but that would take a LONG time.

I like books and movies that make you think.
Six things I could never do without
Exercise, my phone, sneakers, chap stick, hair ties and music.

My family goes without saying.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Workouts, my professional life, school, family, where I'm going, personal growth...
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching live music at a little bar or hanging with the family. Maybe dorky game nights with friends.
Studying... more often than not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me anything. I'll tell you the truth.
You should message me if
You find me interesting and want to get to know me. If you've actually read my profile.

I'll tell you now, if you're not going to read my profile and just randomly send me a one line message, I will probably NOT answer you.

If you're just trying to get a booty call, do not bother sending me a message.

Want to impress me? Ask me a specific question about something I mentioned in my profile and get a conversation going!
The two of us