As for movies, my top three is
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Music's a big deal to me too. I listen to everything, and by that, I mean EVERYTHING. Rap and Country too. I listened to a lot of punk and ska in high school though, so I'm more interested in that than anything else.
Punk and Ska: Minor Threat, Black Flag, Anti Flag, Rancid, The Ramones, GG Allin, Reel Big Fish, Circle Jerks, Streetlight Manifesto, The Toasters...etc.
Pop Music: Katy Perry, Keane, Lana Del Rey, M83, Bruno Mars
Indie: The Shins, Arcade Fire, Arctic Monkeys, Grizzly Bear, Dale Earnhart Jr. Jr., Bon Iver