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My self-summary
I'm a 31 year old transwoman (MTF transsexual) from Atlanta, Georgia. Born, raised, reared, educated, and possibly spayed. I'm not looking for anything impressive on here, just to meet new people and expand my social horizons, again. If it happens, it happens. No, I'm not a crackhead prostitute, but I could come off that way, though. I am not looking for a high unless it's dark chocolate. I won't do anything for a Klondike Bar, but damn I won't say I'm not thinking about it.

My preference would be a demisexual/panromantic. In fact, I think I am an extreme demisexual ...with hints of asexuaity, since I don't have a preference for race, skin color type, religion, body size/shape/type, gender (not necessarily), social status, a particular fetish, sexual orientation, occupation, personality, and etc. Honestly, all I care about is how someone feels about me and how I feel about them. People will often remark, "oh that reeks desperation" or "someone who has a lame concept of love or attraction." Yet, I find it very exciting that I have no idea what my future love/significant other looks like, acts like, or etc. I've had it happened all through out my life, and I enjoy alot of the surprises of what mild friendships or encounters lead to. Moreover, I don't find most people attractive (in personal terms), regardless if they are famous, at school, co-workers, walking around in the city, and etc. Not necessarily in the sense of physical attraction, but more so in the sense of emotional attraction or a special kind of chemistry.

I tend to be more attracted to women, other transsexual/transgender (MTF/FTMs) individuals, genderqueer (or non-conforming), or people who identify as genderless. I will not say I dislike or hate men, because the world has alot of wonderful men that occupy it and I wouldn't want to undermine them, like that. Though, it's much harder to have a relationship or connection with cisgender men, especially if they identify as heterosexual (or not openly bisexual/gay). I can understand, but at the same time it makes a relationship and even sex, impossible. I will never be happy in a relationship that is completely sexual, yet isolated and a devoid of emotions. That's in any relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Basically I'm working on my masters to become a media specialist/librarian. I'm also a video editor, a writer, and poet. I used to be into body sculpting/weight-lifting. It sort of waned on me after doing it from early middle school to post-college.
I’m really good at
Being a super-mega Bitch to people who are sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, or etc. or to people who feel I should be entitled to answer their question. I try not to be a b!tch unnecessarily, but some people deserve it.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first one is obvious, (gender/overall physical appearance).
The second one is obvious, (race).

1. Eyes, definitely.
2. Lips. or Hair.
3. Sprite personality with my big cheesy smiling or my morose facial expressions with my dark grimaces.
4. Secondary sexual characteristics (I hate mentioning that, but honestly people do often look at those features on other people of all shapes and sizes).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll do by genres to keep it simple, and let you figure out what I like.

Movie genres: Documentaries, Horror (suspenseful and splatterhouse), B-Movies, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Drama (sometimes, especially crime, historical

Music Genres: R&B (60s-90s), 80s New Wave (rock), 70s (punk), 70s-90s (metal), Jazz (any), and etc.

Favorite artists (mainstream): Metallica, The Smiths, Oingo Boingo, Anita Baker, Phyllis Hyman, Atlantic Starr, The Stylistics, Alice Cooper, Toni Braxton, Marvin Gaye, The Ojays, Black Sabbath, Ratt. Van Halen, Selena, Miles Davis, Mozart, Klaus Nomi, The Ramones, Queen, Aaron Hall, Phil Collins, Michael Jackson, Type O Negative, Judas Priest, Babyface, Duran Duran, and etc.

I watch so many movies, my head might explode one day. I probably have about a list of 100-120 movies I could consider my favorite. All great for different reasons, and appreciate all forms of cinema (or try to).
Six things I could never do without
Roof over the head
Something to eat . . . hehhe
Some form of entertainment
Some semblance of sanity, mild sanity is ok, utter insanity is not quite so good.
(tie) Sleeping, most relaxing recreation I've ever had and ... unico... Ging... ummm family. I need a support system of some sort, blood relatives or close friends. I'm not entirely a hermit, people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything --- family issues, education (school), paying all of these damn bills, insurance (yuck), hummingbirds, Houston Rockets, basketball in general, all sorts of political/social issues, movies/films, books or articles I've read, traveling, (incessantly) about my beauty (or lack of beauty), working out, gas is just too freaking high, Unicorns (sometimes), dogs, traveling across the ocean, traveling in space, and etc. Too much to thinking about single thing all of the time.
On a typical Friday night I am

Sometimes with my parents.
At the library reading a book or playing on the internet.
Every blue moon, a night club (but I've grown old for that scene, like two years ago).
Movies, typically I go to the special genre theaters that air older films, independent movies
Sporting events
Art Gallery
Sociopolitical forums
Go to some random city without notice (People I'm single, but I don't do that if I am in relationship) - Give me a little credit.
Something I've never done before: (Skydiving, ice skating), I'm always willing to try something new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
... I like Pauly Shore movies.
You should message me if
I'm trying to kiss a cobra or any other dangerous animal on the head. Tell me that I have officially lost my mind, or you could ask how did I photoshoppe that picture.

You think I have a chance of being a Power Ranger.

You have any questions about me, yourself, my world, your world, or anything. I really don't mind. Honestly, I will answer or try to answer, any question. Even the really weird ones or philosophical ones.

... you are not married, (not) taken, (not) sleazy, (not) looking for casual sex favors, have loads of sexual companions, (without a) violent temper, (have) excessive entitlement issues, or (not message me) if you are a raving drug addict.

Just added (4/17): If you are looking for a third wheel in your romantic, sexual relationship or are if you are simply looking for someone to play doormat girlfriend, spouse to your family, friends, interests, jobs, or hobbies, please I have way too much ego and jealousy for a relationship with you.

Also if you are very religious, especially from an Abrahamic faith, it probably works best on a platonic friendship level. Please don't try to convert me to anything or get me to change who I am. I am what I am.
The two of us