Don't let my profile fool Ya...I'm not a pushover for a pretty face but If you got one, I might let you push me over from time to time...lol.
First and Foremost let me get this out in the open. I was raised to respect and appreciate the beauty and character of the women in my life.
Laying aside all forms of antagonism and malice...it is my God Given duty to forever speak the truth, garnished with love and laced with kindness. Not seeking my own but rather considering the "other" as more important than myself.
My desire in a relationship is to become a "student". To make a lifetime study of the one who has agreed to share the rest of her life with me. Not because of my perfections but in spite of my flaws. I want to KNOW the essence of her hearts desires, the wisdom of her mind, the riches of her character and the scent of her body when it's not hidden by perfume.
I want to be the ONE PERSON IN HER LIFE that grows old, not just with her, but, beside her. Cheek to Wrinkled Cheek. BLUE HAIR and all. Those who witness this will see the "sparks", but only her and I will experience the FIRE.
I suppose if I were to have one wish for today, it would be that this letter find's a place of rest, in you.
I am looking for a woman who knows what commitment really means. Someone who is funny, adventurous, who captivates the room when she walks in. A woman who is spontaneous and can find the good in almost any situation. She takes care of herself, not for the attention of others but just because it makes her happy. She's non-judgmental and she cares about those less fortunate. She doesn't want to be with me because of what I can do for her, but just because of who I am. She's the woman who would be supportive and understanding through and through and in every situation in life. I believe that my role as a man is to do everything I can to try and create an environment where she can grow into and become everything God created her to be.
No one likes to be treated like a pair of shoes that can be discarded when they get a little uncomfortable. I'm not a player. I don't do one night stands and the Bar scene is a thing of the past, but that doesn't mean I wont go have a few drinks with someone and dance.
I love to golf, Ive been scuba diving and would go again. I love to snow ski and the mountains. I love the ocean. Love to go on cruises to exotic locations or just hang out and watch a good movie. I am a Christian in every sense of the word. A gentleman through and through. I still open doors for the young and old alike. But I suppose you wont know that for yourself unless we communicate.
So. Talk to me.
Thank you and best wishes on your search...
I'm just a guy who has finally discovered that the one who created me is able to manage my life better than I can, so as much as I can, I let Him.
OH WELL, SO MUCH FOR SHORT AND SWEET. LOL
My relationship with Jesus Christ will always be the most important relationship in my life. If you can accept that and even embrace it then you will experience a love you've never known before and it will last FOREVER.
FOR A CHRISTIAN LADY'S LOVE TO GIVE SHE MUST SEE,
THE LOVE OF JESUS THAT LIVES IN ME,
THEN GOD WILL OPEN THE EYES OF HER SOUL AND,
GIVE HER THE FREEDOM TO A LOVE UNTOLD,
TREASURES BEYOND HER DREAMS.
AS FOR THE MAN ON THIS GODLY QUEST,
I MUST PROMISE TO GIVE HER A CHRIST-LIKE REST,
THEN GOD WILL OPEN THE EYES OF MY SOUL AND
GIVE ME THE FREEDOM TO HER LOVE, SO BOLD AND
IN HER LOVE, GOD'S TREASURES UNFOLD FOREVER.
NO STORM WILL SHAKE OUR INNER-MOST CALM,
WHILE TO THIS ROCK WE CLING,
WHERE-IN GOD'S GRACE FOREVER WE'LL STAND,
TOGETHER, TWO HEARTS WILL SING,
AND AS ONE, WE'LL SEE HIS FACE.
THEN GOD WILL OPEN THE EYES OF OUR SOUL AND,
GIVE US THE FREEDOM TO THIS LOVE UNTOLD,
GOD'S TREASURES BEYOND OUR DREAMS.