57 Newburgh, United States
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My self-summary
Is this something like the sum of myself? With a bit of Gestalt added to it -- the whole is greater than the sum of the parts?? How is that for a tad bit of a flippant quip?

Love to have my fun
I'm a high life flier and a rainbow rider
A straight shootin' son-of-a-gun --
Three Dog Night says it well!

I am playful and cherish having fun!! At the same time, I am substantive & astonishingly authentic!

I hope that everyone may grow in awareness, heart, soul and warmth -- even, and perhaps especially, the exceptionally contentious or annoying folks among us.

My user name and my interests really do say a good bit about me. I am healthy in mind, body and spirit with a zest for life. I want to share all this life & world has to offer and have someone to share that with me. Life is good and getting better: Let's dance.

Now here is a delicious notion:
If you and I may pass through Paradise in a dream,
And have a flower presented to us as a pledge
That our souls had already been there, and if we found
That flower among us when we awaken together –
Aye , what then!--
My adaptation of a bit of thought by Samuel Taylor Coleridge.

I am looking for a woman that can keep up with me mentally, emotionally, intellectually, and physically -- be it dancing, bicycling, walking, jogging or just taking in life. A woman that can challenge me would be an even sweeter find.

I am eclectic. I like many different styles or types of things, from music to art to people. I enjoy life and this world, from the simple things of nature to the more complex contrivances of mankind. Life is to live and to live fully. I am simply looking for a nice, bright, and easy going lady (who would certainly have her moments of intensity) to have some nice and fun times enjoying what this life has to offer: bright full moons, a nice dinner and dancing out on the town, or simply taking it easy at home talking over life or watching a good video, or dancing at home. While I am not expecting anything serious now, should I be graced with that someone special, I would be amazed, honored & greatly blessed. I desire that soul mate that would be a mate in life, and as a natural result of all of that, a mate for life. Alas, for now & perhaps to that wondrous result, simple fun; merely enjoying one another's company; who knows what may come. And remember what I said about a woman who can keep up with me or challenge me.

I recently came across this quote. It fits me, what I aim to be, to help others have, and to generally share. Might it be a dance you want to share with me:

"To laugh often and love much; to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest citizens and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to give of one’s self; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived — this is to have succeeded." Bessie A. Stanley

Oh, and my mixed color hair: its salt and pepper as much as gray and brown is salt and pepper -- a light colored pepper perhaps. Remind me to tell you a slightly off colored joke about a young man with multiple colored hair.
What I’m doing with my life
I am making my journey good -- among other things, including especially my sons and other family.

I'm starting to more and more buy into that idea that what other people think of me is none of my business! Which is a tad bit different than not caring what other people think or care.

I am honored, humbled & pleased to have had parts in the 2013, 2014 & 2015 productions of Newburgh Community Theater -- most recently playing a role as a modern detective. It is great fun and is certainly a challenge to me, having never acted before. Costume picture is from 2013's play. Pipe is a prop; I'm a non-smoker. Hair has been cut & sideburns gone, and now the goatee and mustache are gone too as you can see from my most recent pictures.

Newburgh Community Theater has great casts and crews and our audiences were ever so gracious! It is fun and I am looking forward to doing more -- blast from audition through set-tear down!! Looking forward to more of THAT sort of participation in drama. ;-)

Among those other things, the things in my life that I enjoy:

Dancing Music Sun sets
Sun Shine Dawn Moon Rises
Full Moons Moon Light Learning
Teaching Listening Talking
Thinking Walking Jogging
Driving Crescent Moons Politics
Ideas Words Language
Quotes Sensuality
I’m really good at
I'm really good at finding good in and about nearly everything, learning and helping others see more than what may first meet the eye.
The first things people usually notice about me
Still water runs deep. Ok, so it seems folks notice the still part, not so sure they notice that I run deep, but then again, that's the way that sort of thing seems to work.

They also seem to notice how I express myself and some seem to think I am intelligent. I recently read a quote about intelligence. Something like being a four wheel drive vehicle -- you get stuck in more remote places.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy a wide variety of about all things! I most like music I can dance to. I love to dance though I hardly know a step. I just move to the music and have fun.
The six things I could never do without
Some easy ones: air, water, food, sleep, shelter, clothing. Too basic? How about mental stimulation, God, freedom, the beauty of creation, grace (being forgiven and giving forgiveness), anything the enriches the soul. Too out there? Then lets just mix those things together. That is about the sum of life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I claim thinking as a hobby as odd as that may be. So I simply spend a lot of time thinking about all so many things!
On a typical Friday night I am
I am not sure what a typical Friday is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm fairly private -- so I'm not sure there is much for me to say here.
You should message me if
You want a man -- a gentleman even -- who is of substance, loves to have fun and help others have fun too.