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My self-summary
Sup Guys! (IN[T/F]P, if it matters?) Firstly, dont be deterred from interaction, but I am NOT available for romance or sexual whatevers, only platonic whatsits if thats your thing... ive been with the same radical dude for 5 radical years with no intentions on stopping, i just can never bring myself to delete or deactivate these things; not when theres so many interesting people in the world to interact with.
Right now, I just simply exist. Manifesting as a jedi, musician, artist, skeptic, stoner, scientist, atheist, buddhist, occultist soothsayer, anarcho-socialist who is pro legalization of cannabis, pro choice, pro LGBTQ+ rights, pro body posi, pro ANY rights for all beings; anti sexism, anti racism, anti fascism, anti homophobia, anti body shaming, anti religion, anti nationalism, anti war, anti violence, anti hatred.
I want very much to be able to respect others views because there is much to learn from difference, but if your views somehow try and prevent someone from existing on their own terms, they dont serve a helpful unitarian purpose and dont deserve to be respected. They can be used as tools for learning, analyzed and understood. But not respected or upheld. Sorrynotsorry.
I guess I'm just kinda your modern-day amateur humbly-and-admittedly-dont-really-know-shit-about-anything-just-trying-to-make-sense-of-this-perception pseudo-philosopher.
Forever will i be the optimist, the jedi, the lover, the scientist, the mystic, the listener, the absorber. Just looking to kill time and make a buddy or two or four...teen...thousand.

May the Force be with you all, always.
What I’m doing with my life
I went to college, majored in music performance and production, minored in fine art/graphic design and dropped out when I couldn't afford it anymore. Since then ive been a preschool teacher, a feeelance watercolor artist, a graphic designer, a dog breeder, a retail associate, a booker stage manager and sound technician for a music venue, an online store manager, and a tattoo artist. Met up with my long-lost brother i hadn't seen or heard from in 16 years, he taught me to tattoo (true story) and that sufficed for years. In my spare time i still write, play, and (rarely) perform music. I'm also restoring my 1971 Chevy Nova with my dad.

I used to have dreams of living the Santa Cruz beach bum life; living in SC, tattooing the rest of my life or owning a head shop, or an arcade, or selling my artwork. Thats still an appealing life, but for now my more reasonable goals are collecting star wars memorabilia and going back to college to study biology and chemistry so i can settle in a career that will help guide our futures in a positive direction for all. Clean energy, renewable resources, biologic and chemical engineering to bring better conservation of animals and resources, as well as better food, medicine, and products to people all with less pollution and endangerment of the environment. We only have one life and one planet yknow?
I’m really good at
Music (I play a shit ton of instruments, compose, and sing), diffusing tense situations, art in general, tattoos, finding the silver lining, befriending animals, minding my own fucking business, cooking and baking, playing devils advocate for the sake of understanding all sides, debunking bullshit i see on the internet, making coffee, cleaning, meditating, provoking thought, video games, laughing, listening, using the force, making people feel good through encouragement, smoking shit tons of weed.
The first things people usually notice about me
Superficially? My eyes, my fucking long hair, my tattoos and piercings, my freckles, my fat, my band shirts, how often i laugh, my one dimple, how painfully awkward i can be (sorry man, its not intentional).

Half of people tell me im "extremely intimidating" when i first meet them, the other half tell me im "warm and approachable." I dunno you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most importantly MUSIC: Ska, Surf, Technical Death Metal, Swing/Big Band, Black Metal, Psychobilly, Progressive, Psychedelic, 60s and 70s Classic Rock. I am an audiophile, if it is unique and different, i favor it.
A small sample size of favorite bands are (but definitely not limited to):
Led Zeppelin, Ravi Shankar, Mars Volta, Nile, The Growlers, Jimi Hendrix, Toots and the Maytals, Operation Ivy, Buckethead, Big Maybelle, The Ghastly Ones, Pink Floyd, Man or Astro Man?, Frank Sinatra, Creedence Clearwater, Cannabis Corpse, Louis Armstrong, Blotted Science, The Beatles, Benny Goodman, Leftover Crack, Ahab, Emperor, Bob Marley.

Books (Its a small list, i honestly read mostly non-fiction or reference books): Tolkien, Sagan, Chomsky, Nietzsche, Dawkins, Darwin, Orwell, Homer, Burgess, Pahlaniuk.
Some faves are: fight club, lord of the rings, a clockwork orange, the god delusion, the odyssey, 1984, brave new world, the jungle, lord of the flies,
Anything non-fiction, historical, reference, biographical.

Movies: STAR WARS, Lord of the Rings, fight club, a clockwork orange, indiana jones, pulp fiction, o brother where art thou?, shawshank redemption, step brothers, pineapple express, any documentary about historical, political, social, environmental, or religious matters.

TV: ANY David Attenborough documentary, Bill Nye, Neil DeGrasse Tyson, Star Trek, Mythbusters, Futurama, Twilight Zone, Bobs Burgers, Ghost Adventures, the marvelous misadventures of flapjack, adventure time, regular show, almost everything on adult swim, and any sort of educational stuff... like discovery, history, science, and national geographic.

Food: sushi, pho, curry (or anything indian), authentic mexican, awesome italian, seafood, in n out (its just a california thing, I guess), fresh fruit, and any kind of dessert or pastry or baking type thing. I love food. Ill eat it all
Six things I could never do without
My boyfriend, My dad, my dogs, my phone, my PS4, my weed :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Dude... Life. People. Love. Nature. Earth. Purpose. God(s) (or lack thereof). The vastness of the universe. History. The insignificance of our existence compared to everything else surrounding us and the liberating nihilism and opportunity that comes with it. The idea of SpaceTime. Comprehending the actual power of THE FORCE. Aliens. The theory of the multiverse and possible parallel universes. Time travel. Defining reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking or baking. Getting baked myself or with friends. Practicing some ritualistic witchcraft. Watching a documentary. Sitting around a bonfire. Listening to music. Playing sitar. Jammin on some video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a rationally scientifically-minded Atheist Buddhist, but I also heavily research and use different forms of mysticism and other possibly taboo pagan occult practices. Just ask me about it if you're interested. Dont let it scare you. Its not scary, just intriguing. Promise.
You should message me if
You arent going to sexually or verbally harass me, you want to practice magick, you're looking to get a tattoo, you like star wars or star trek, you've got a badass band you want to show me, you have a cool article about the advances of science,

Or, if you just wanna be buddies and laugh and get super baked and be super philosophical and be excellent to one another and get one step closer to reaching nirvana.
The two of us