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My self-summary
Update July 1st: I have been seeing someone for 3 months now. She is fantastic and she is Polyamorous. She comes first in my life right now for relationships, understand that. If you still want contact me, go for it, I am always happy to meet new people.

Hey, if you are interested, you should message me. I really like people who just come out and make the first move. Of all the people who have contacted me first and we got past a couple conversations I am friends with about half of them; conversely EVERY person I contacted first brushed me off after three messages, so either I have really bad instincts or there are so many creeps out there that you assume that we, who contact first, are as well-- I will entertain that I have bad instincts if you will entertain the latter.

I am demiromantic, which means that I wont try to sleep with you at all until I really know you and even then you will probably have to suggest it. It is not because I am the last true Gentleman on the planet, it is because until I know you I will not find you attractive (to me). I believe that every woman is pretty, but I am not attracted to outside appearances, but a person's core being. Demiromantic is just like what everyone says how to find a good partner (before they abandon the ideal and sleep with them), but for me it is reality; I am on that asexuality scale.

I have been described as a Feminist, Too-Smart-For-My-Own-Good and Different. If you are looking for The Same, move on.

My friends might point out that I sound Patronizing when I am nervous, which they find funny, because I don't mean to be, I just sound that way.

A summary of my self? I don't know how to do this, how to condense a whole lifetime of experiences into one paragraph or two! That would mean I am long winded too and don't like to leave out details.

If this is really important to you, ask me.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am spending too much time filling out singles dating profiles and not doing a very good job at it.
I’m really good at
I am really good at many things, but I tend to focus on a few areas. I collect odd facts. I am good at math, mind you that is just compared to the typical math phobic person out there. I am really good at science related stuff. I am a practiced Skeptic, which means I don't believe half of the stuf some people put on their Facebook pages and I can usually tell them why it is bunk.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is how big I am, height, et al., my strawberry blond hair. If they look closely enough, the discarded remains of demons from the dungeon dimensions!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: SciFi Fantasy: Tolkien, I have read his lesser known works eg. I know who Niënor is and used her in a RPG game in the exact same role…. Dune series, Robots and Foundation. Gormenghast. A Wrinkle in Time, what's more I understood it at age ten. Shogun. Narnia, twice once as preteen and once as an adult and know I know why my mother could not read it to us. Baby Black Holes and Universes. Terry Pratchett!! Peter v Brett. Brandon Sanderson, before WoT. I read more than I do anything else in this section.
Movies: not horror. LotR, John Carter. 007, Harry Potter.
Shows: Internet based, I have no tv. Smallville, House. Doctor Who, old and new (I think I have missed most of number two but have seen most of the rest, certainly all of III-XI) and a few others
Music: not old country, not MooseFM (80s music and new country, but they are the same so…) I love NIN and oddly Erasure and anything like Gershwin, Tchaikovsky and Beethoven like.
Food: foreign, vegetarian (Indian first. Thai, Ethiopian, and veg sushi)
Six things I could never do without
1) friends —They keep me sane, even if they are not.
2) my bicycle
3) a good story, it could be a good plot from Hollywood or a book
4) the idea that I will get to play or run another epic story
5) the idea that one day I will get a chance to pen the stories in my head
6) good hard work, from which I get ideas and value my friends more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
So many different things. Skepticism. The Environment. Social equity. Science. Changing the World. My friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Asleep. I work Saturdays, typically.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a blog and I update it a lot. Guess its name?
You should message me if
You are looking for deep conversations on a variety of subjects.

I am looking for depth, not someone that touches on topics and lets them lie, I am looking to understand you completely. If you don't think you can stand up to that sort of intensity, move on.
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