38Bowling Green, United States
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My self-summary
I am a girl whose spirit demands to be noticed and valued above all else which is attached to it. I probably overthink most things (including the answers to these questions) but I am very rational and receptive to voices of reason so I'm easily grounded when I venture off into space. I've reached a point in my life in which home and a familiar face welcoming me there are more attractive to me than the excitement of new and bold experiences with fleeting hearts wrapped up in pretty packaging. Although stubborn at times I can easily admit when I'm wrong without letting it bruise my skin or resenting the finger that points it out to me so I need someone who isn't afraid or too polite to call me out on my blunders, you're not doing me any favors by letting me linger in naivety and I will respect you more for caring enough to lead me away from it. Ultimately I am seeking someone I can trust to do right by me who also requires and trusts that I can do the same for them.
What I’m doing with my life
Attempting to mold it into something I can appreciate regardless of wether others can/will appreciate it or not.
I’m really good at
Laughing at my own lame jokes
Finding beauty in things and people that is often overlooked
Waste basketball (not really but I always have an incredible urge to try to sink any trash in hand when across the room from an open wastebasket)
Forgetting names
remembering faces
Back massages (let's not be crude! I almost didn't list this one for fear of opening myself up to assanign innuendoes)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm sure everyone notices something different
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love film probably a little too much... Wes Anderson, P.T. Anderson, Kubrick, Coen bros, Tarantino, Gus Van Sant, Harmony Korine, Larry Clark: All About Lily Chou-Chou, Taxi Driver, May, No Country For Old Men, Gummo, Dancer In The Dark, When Harry Met Sally, A Serbian Film, Heartbeats, Death Proof, Nymphomaniac, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Bully(Larry Clark, not the animation) The Undertaker and his Pals
I love music in general: Portishead, Bright Eyes, Elliott Smith, Modest Mouse, Danzig, The Shins, Cloud Cult, The Pixies, Nick Cave.............
TV: Peep Show and Trailer Park Boys are my favorites... Freaks And Geeks, Louie, Portlandia, Workaholics, Wilfred, The Office, American Horror Story, Malcolm In The Middle, The Middle, Bob's Burgers, Family Guy.....
I love graphic novels, comic books, Arsenic Lullaby, A Brave New World
FOOD: I'm a vegetarian and honest I can be a little finicky so it's kinda hit or miss on that one.
Six things I could never do without
Besides the obvious necessities of life there really isn't much I couldn't do without... My daughter for sure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
As I stated earlier I tend to overthink things so I consider everything probably a little longer and a bit more often than the average bear.
How to get from point A to point B most efficiently, wait, where am I? Shoot, i missed my turn!
Is my daughter truly happy?
What day is that appointment again?!
Where I've been and where it's led me thus far as well as where it will take me in the future.
What can I do to better the situation at hand.
What to say when others confide in me.
Am I being honest or just nice?
How my actions effect others.
Why other people don't think more about how their actions effect others.
What am I doing?
Where and when will I happen upon that one person who gets me and appreciates what their getting from me whom I also get and appreciate and how will this find shape both of our lives for the better.
What my cats are thinking about.
Human nature in general.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work every other weekend 6pm-6am and on my Fridays off I get off at 6am that morning so that's usually my nt to decompress but should something interesting enough to pique my interest present itself I would happily indulge my natural curiosity and meet it's call.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
To EVERYONE who stumbles onto this?! What exactly IS your definition of "private?" As for myself, "private" entails something you don't disclose to just anyone who happens to be listening or in this case, reading.
You should message me if
You feel compelled somehow to do so.
You understand that I'm not looking to "hook-up" and neither are you.
You realize that the above statement does not make me a bitch.
You have a sense of humor and can bend it around any hairy situation.
You're not allergic to cats!
You have access to a time machine or teleportation device and are willing to grant me permission to board said time machine or teleportation device.
The two of us