33Utrecht, Netherlands
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My self-summary
Bit of a daydreamer. A bit shy at first, but warm, empathic and openminded, sometimes a bit philosopical, when I feel comfortable. Creative with words, loves humorous interactions, interested in the absurd, dark and dry.

I like quiet days with just some netflix, music or reading, but also biking or walking in the woods, doing urban exploring, swimming, singing, camping, travelling and the occassional party or drink with friends. Or doing something new :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Work, eat, netflix, sleep, etc. :-p

Writing poetry, lyrics and (sometimes) stories.
Singing. Sometimes good, sometimes crappy.
Biking, swimming. Oh, and I (always) need a vacation..

Other: cooking, socialising with housmates and friends, skypen with my sisters and my nephew and niece, visiting abandoned buildings and places with a friend (urbex).

Doing administrative work at Sociale Verzekeringsbank.
I’m really good at
Thinking of too many ideas and not knowing where to begin.
Making people laugh, ocassionally by accident.
Feeling like a strange stranger in this world.
The first things people usually notice about me
People usually think I'm younger than I am. Curly hair, I guess. What do you see? 😉
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just a few names and titles.

Roald Dahl, Bret Easton Ellis' American Psycho, Nick Hornby's High Fidility, Multatuli's Max Havelaar, Dutch poetry by Rutger Kopland and Ingmar Heytze.

Amélie, Fight Club, The Ordinary People, Das Experiment, Cashback, Intouchables, The Guard, Back To The Future, Juno, Control, Barton Fink, Shortbus, Being John Malkovic, Lost in Translation, The Virgin Suicides, Ratatouille, The Fantastic Mr. Fox, Run Lola Run, The Dreamers.

Monthy Python, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Twin Peaks, The Big Bang Theory, Count Duckula, Keuringsdienst van Waarde (Dutch TV program).

I don't eat gluten, conservation or colour additives. I respond bad to them. Other than that, I eat almost everything. Addicted to all sorts of cheese, chocolate, fruit and smoothies, and herbal tea.
Six things I could never do without
Creative thoughts, music, notebook and pen, good herbal tea, interhuman connections, nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You, offcourse. Well, that is, after you sent me a message.

This playlist:

Random weird philosophical thoughts about lyrics of the song playing, something someone said 10 minutes earlier or something my weird brain suggested to itself.

But I also want to enjoy life and relax a bit now and again ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes wandering around making interhuman connections with creatures of my own spicies, sometimes diving in other things (like water or a beautiful mind, or a good movie).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to smoke weed or hasj sometimes, or use my vaporiser.
I have a dirty mind, a dirty blog and an interest in things non-vanilla.
I am too much of an open book (or mouth) for my own good. ;-)
You should message me if
...... you are a bit (positively) crazy, got a twinkle in your eyes, a big smile, got curly hair, speak Flamish, or have freckles. Or, ...

..... you have a sweet / crazy / naughty / friendly / original / poetic / interesting story to share.
.... you have a original title/subject for a poem I can write.
... you have something to ask or tell me, a good idea for something to do together.
.. you have a even better reason.
. you don't have any reason, but you still want to.
The two of us