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My self-summary
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I'm a member of Ottawa's predominantly-gay rugby team, the Ottawa Wolves. Join us!

I'm a serious boy who loves to be silly.

I love interesting conversations, sports, gaming --pen and paper RPGs, video games, board games, etc.--writing companions, fellow art geeks, and sex.

I'm in an open relationship with a boyfriend I love dearly, so I'm not looking for a relationship.

I'm convinced that what matters is not interests, but interaction--it doesn't matter what you like, or what I like, but how we connect when we're together. So send me a line, and we'll find out!

I am literate, peculiar, and passionate.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to learn and share as much as I can. I read, I debate, I think, I change my mind when I learn new things, and then debate some more. Those are the two main constants in my life: learning and sharing. What do I learn about? Pretty much everything. And if I haven't learned about it yet, I'd love to start.

I'm working a lot on my art: writing, reading, and drawing. Some of my poetry and short stories have been published, but I'm still looking to improve them. I'm a horrible visual artist, but am slowly becoming better.

I try to push myself to my limits in sport, in art, and in life. I want to live the best I can, inspiring as many people as I can, for as long as I can.
I’m really good at
Thinking about things and making a fool of myself (and enjoying it).
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, you're the one doing the noticing--you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) Sartor Resartus, by Thomas Carlyle, The Stone Diaries, by Carol Shiels, Alcyone, by Archibald Lampman, Tender Is the Night, by F. Scott Fitzgerald, Mrs. Dalloway, by Virginia Woolf, Middlemarch, by George Eliot, Tess of the D'Urbervilles, by Thomas Hardy, As For Me and My House, by Sinclair Ross, Nicomachean Ethics, by Aristotle, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? by Philip K. Dick, Sense and Sensibilia, by J.L. Austin, The Beautiful and Damned by F. Scott Fitzgerald, and Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky.

B) Monty Python's The Meaning of Life, Slings and Arrows (well, technically it's a miniseries, but whatever), The Wrath of Kahn, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, and I've Heard the Mermaids Singing.

C) Beethoven (I play the piano, and have Moonlight Sonata memorised), Bach, Delerium, Trance, Wagner, The Arrogant Worms, Philip Glass, Schubert, Folk, Blues, Jazz, Classical

D) Vegan baking. I usually make my own favourite foods, like pumpkin-banana muffins, or vegan fajitas. I don't eat out much.
Six things I could never do without
Food, Water, Air, Shelter, something (or someone) to learn from, and something to write on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, life, the use of art, Carlyle, peak oil, urban planning, my writing, philosophy, ethics, people, metaethics, improving myself, literature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. I work Friday nights. :P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've never had a threesome before, and I've always been curious as to what they're like. I've also done porn.

I'm an open person; ask me anything, and I'll answer it honestly.
You should message me if
You're intelligent, opinionated (yet also rational enough to alter or change your opinions when you learn new information), enjoy debating, and goofy.

You don't have to have the same interests as me because the best part of meeting new people is learning about their interests and the way they see the world.
The two of us