I'm a mix of many things. Romantic, practical, deliberate, whimsical, routine, doing the unexpected. It all depends on what is going on. I try to do the right things at the right times, but I'm human enough to exhibit a few flaws here and there. I troubleshoot objects that don't work at home, but will listen to you with focus when you want to talk to me. I tend to grow on people, and as my characteristics get shown, people like me more and more. The first impression of me is far different from later impressions, believe me. Everyone I've been around at my workplaces will verify that.
I'm quite spontaneous, thoughtful, caring, active, dedicated to one woman. I prefer a woman who can embrace her entire self an artful way (she doesn't have to be an artist). In some ways, I appear to be a conflict, but think of myself as being comfortable with being eclectic. I live a rich inner-life, and although considered (by some) to be a bit older than others on OKC, I have a very youthful outlook on life. I enjoy exploring the beautiful natural world we live in, I love discovering new experiences – live music performances, swimming, hiking, and meditation, reading. I also enjoy conversations, mild political discourse, philosophy, solutions, intimate subjects that need understanding, and then witty banter because life can be funny.
Some friends have told me I'm one of the funniest people they know, but I take them by surprise because I'm so low-key. I'm also about the inner you, and not your possessions. And equally, I care more about your mind, heart, your kindness, and your passions, than about the outer you, as long as you respect and take care of yourself, avoid being obese or are in an exercise plan to be more fit, and have self-respect. Swimming at the Sierra rivers is something that is fun for me on a hot day, and I skinny dip a lot. Care to join me in that? I'll really be into what what's inside your mind and heart, and if you are an honest, loving, sexual, sensual, happy person, who likes lots of affection each day, and otherwise are seeking the same, I have a sense we could be compatible.
You are a gracious, intelligent, graceful woman who has lived a full life, but knows that joy does not have an age limit. You deserve respect for the choices you've made, for the life you've lived, and for the woman you are. You have a big heart and desire a relationship with someone who knows how to have fun, someone who knows himself and feels confident enough to be himself. You like to be surprised, you enjoy spontaneity, but you also value solid values and integrity. You love to laugh, and you know how to cry. You have no body shame learned from your parents, or you have overcome that sort of thing.
Once you have developed a trusted relationship, you enjoy the physical aspects of being with a man who cares for you and respects you, and can make you feel valued and loved. You might enjoy places like the Sierra. Day or weekend trips in our area interests you. Once the time is right, deep intimacy is something you desire, but you don't want to be rushed too quickly into anything. You love feeling held, feeling safe in the arms of the person who loves you more than anything and anyone else in the world. You value the experience, the caring, the knowledge that comes with someone like me, who has lived a very rich inner-self life.