32 Arlington, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an introverted, peace-loving, ex-game-design student with a love for nature and nerdery, a typical ISTP and Ravenclaw, and chronically afflicted by Bitchy Resting Face. Looking for good friends / romantic partners interested in late-nite pizza bites and cuddles accompanying thought-provoking conversation.

I'm very feline: I will nuzzle people for physical affection, love being clean, sleep in sunbeams and get hyper at night. I'm graceful, quiet, and attentive to detail, but I am shy and slow to warm up to people (although will be all over you once I do). I have zero body shame, and lovingly appreciate all body types.

My lady Bookowl and I are both pansexual and polyamorous, and we enjoy sharing many kinds of love and experiences with kind, intelligent people of any gender. No, you don't have to be involved with both of us (but most people seem to prefer it).
What I’m doing with my life
I work a Monday-Friday job in a warehouse throwing boxes. Outside of work I'm usually on my PC, as I don't have many friends in the area.

A few months ago I was rejected by a long-term partner with whom I was very deeply involved. Although I have moved past that loss, it has taken an emotional toll I am seeking to rise above. Finding a friend or lover with a positive mood is a priority for me.
I’m really good at
Computers / digital things: building PCs, messing up PC games, Photoshop (often for actually touching up photos) and a bit of digital photography.

I have dexterous elven fingers, so I partake in things which benefit from such. I am still discovering the range of what those things are.
The first things people usually notice about me
That they don't notice me at all. You can't even see me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Human Smoke, Dante's Divine Comedy, The Silmarillion. There's many more, but those three are a pretty good cross-section of everything.

Television: Monty Python, Red Dwarf, Black Books, IT Crowd, Father Ted, and a handful of other British shows. I don't care for American humour or writing most of the time.

Music: Post Futurist Instrumental Disco Grunge Crunkstep.

Food: Everything. Seriously.

PC games are a major part of my life. Current obsessions are Don't Starve and Binding of Isaac.
The six things I could never do without
Music, seasons, love, a pen and paper, vestigial organs, and of course all the stuff I don't have and the people I don't know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Half of my waking thoughts are spent wondering how people get jobs that aren't retail, food industry, or warehouse. It's like some big secret everyone knows but me.

Lots of daydreams about interior design, game design, architecture, 3d modeling, etc...
On a typical Friday night I am
Asking people on OKC if they want to go get some coffee, then getting turned down before they even learn that I don't like coffee.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't have a filter. But since you asked, let's be up front about it; I'm not into anal, and for some reason it's oft been a disqualifier for a relationship. So there you go.
You should message me if
You love forests, ice cream, abandoned buildings, rattlesnakes, nerf guns, 120 degree summer days and 60 degree fall nights, dodging mosquitoes in a swimming pool and drinking lemonade at sunset.

You are looking for someone with whom to adventure, discuss politics, start a revolution, or to love (in any of its interpretations). Or if you just want someone to talk to. I'm just sitting here most of the time.