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My self-summary
I've never been one for self summaries, I never know if it's best to leave it short/nice or detailed/long; we'll go for something in between. I was born in a small northern cal town and moved to southern cal before high school, so I've pretty much lived most my life in southern cal. I still believe in many of the so-called old fashion ways of how to treat women, mainly with respect and manners; i've dated a number of women in my life but have never needed to be pushy or disrespectful to have a great time. If a relationship is to proceed, it happens because both people are ready, not just one.
I am equally happy in a room with 100's or 1000's of people as I am sitting in the middle of the tundra with no one around for miles; as a friend once said to me, I can easily seem equally happy homeless sitting in a door way as you are in a social gathering ... she's probably right, but I really don't want to find out if it's true ;-)
I am a true believer of fairness for every one, and for those who have to help the less fortunate; if we inhabit this planet together, then we all need to do what we can to help each other be happy in our limited stay as decent as it can be.
I've been told that I have a problem with authority, which I basically disagree with; I just tend to lose respect for supervisors and leaders who knuckle under to others in order to save their own skin at the expense of others.
I don't consider myself religious, but I do see myself as spiritual; I pray/meditate every day
I work out 5 days a week, but I am no muscle head; I do what I need to do to stay in shape ... and I don't freak out if I miss a day to do something else.
I rarely ever get angry or offended, I don't let little things annoy me, I prefer to talk things out than let issues fester, I like someone who is honest, respectful and loyal ... once you lose respect, it's tough to ever gain it back 100%

What am I looking for? I am looking for that person who when they walk away has to turn back to see if you are looking at them realizing you have the biggest smile just watching them

Also, if you tend to suck the energy out of the room with negative vibes or self absorbed, I have the distinct feeling it probably won't be a good match
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live it to the fullest without any regrets
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
Beats me,you'll have to ask my friends
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book: The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, and many of the classics, especially Shakespeare

Movies: Matrix, Dead Poets Society, The Artist, Good Bad and Ugly, I Am Sam, Henry V, 300, Amelie, Hero, Good Will Hunting, Indie and classic films ... to name a few

TV Shows: Mad Men, The Shield, Justified, 24, The Good Wife, Archer, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Southland, Blue Bloods, True Blood, Boardwalk Empire, The Newsroom, The West Wing, The Twilight Zone, Classic Westerns ...

Music: rock n' roll, 80's, big band swing, opera, classical ... to name a few

Food: pretty much anything
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The present
On a typical Friday night I am
Gym, dinner and peaceful evening at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll have to get back to you
You should message me if
If you are low maintenance, know how to have a real conversation, slow to anger, spiritual ... well, I don't want to make a laundry list, but it's a good place to begin .... keep in mind, none of these answers are set in stone, it's all about chemistry
The two of us