35Lemon Grove, United States
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My self-summary
I'd rather watch Die Hard than The Notebook. I never close cabinets. I rarely twist the cap all the way shut. I squeeze the toothpaste from the middle instead of the bottom. I take my shoes off in the middle of the room and leave them there. I haven't made my bed since I was in grade school. You will probably find my hair attached to your clothes.

I love a guy who loves cats.

I'm an atheist (actually, a secular humanist, but few people know what that is, so I usually just say atheist). I get a lot of messages on this site from people who are clearly religious. It's not that I have a problem with you, but you'll probably have a problem with me.

I smoke pot every day (I like to tell people that my life is a Dr. Dre album). I eat mushrooms every now and then. For some reason, a lot of people think that "behavior" should have stopped by my age, but it hasn't, and it probably won't any time soon. I rarely drink more than a glass or two of wine. So I don't really "party" and I'm not your typical drugged out loser. I'm more high-functioning than any sober person you know.

I'm originally from Los Angeles and I go home often. I hope to live there again one day.
What I’m doing with my life
I just started my Master's thesis (on Haruki Murakami, if you care), so... writing writing writing. Heading to Japan in August to do some "research" (which is mostly just a rationalization, let's be real).

I write fiction (though not right now--see last sentence), and I've been trying to get a final draft of my novel done for going on a year.
I’m really good at
Ranting about capitalism

I'm a damn good home cook

I make the best mixed CDs ever. It usually takes me a week or two because I really try to customize it for the person I'm making it for, and I'll listen to hundreds of songs before I come up with a track list.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure. Probably my crazy hair, which has a mind of it's own.

If I'm wearing sandals or heels or something with no socks, I notice that people tend to look at/read the tattoos on my feet while trying to look like they're not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I hate questions like these because I don't think compatibility has anything to do with book/music taste. I know enough douchebags with good taste in music. Sure, similar interests are always a plus, but I'm looking for good people, not good bands.

That being said, I really like music festivals.
Six things I could never do without
I think I could probably learn to live without most of the things I've grown attached to, but here's some things that I really like:

My cat
Yelling at the TV when Fox news is on

okay, I came up with three
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I like to drive around and smoke pot and come up with stories to write
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm in LA, I'm probably out with friends.

If I'm in SD, I'm probably watching Bill Maher.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a total straight-girl crush on Rachel Maddow
You should message me if
you like road trips, cats, and people who tell the truth
The two of us