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My self-summary
Former Coloradoan, bewitched by the vast wonder and magic that is Oregon. Rain and beaches and a positive energy!

I believe that I can be described as somewhat foolish, heroic, warm, loving, charming, rouge-like, helpful, noble, fun-loving, magical, ordinary, serious, childlike, and wishful, a dreamer, a poet, an actor, a fighter and a lover; I am the living paradox of being a silver-tongued devil, as well as a stuttering schoolboy.
I’m a rare catch, I am understanding and have full visiting rights with my emotions, but I am also stable and look to the future but live in the present. I like to treat women well and don’t think manners are overrated.
I am something of an anachronism; I still believe that a man should hold open a door for everyone and that it is charming to pull out a chair for a date.
I feel romance and life should never be ordinary, that it is ok to bringing flowers "just because" Yet I understand where woman have come from, and I would never want to take away their rights or feelings. It was a long road to suffragette city and a strong man stands by his lady’s’ values and decisions.

I guess I should point out that while I am a geek of many colors. I am also into social issues, human rights and saving this beautiful earth. If you thinks gays shouldn't be married or have adopted children, move on! In the immortal words of Wil Wheaton, "Don't be a dick." I am a game designer by hobby turned other job. I write and design games.

I am also a classically trained Shakespearean actor and Improv comedian. I hold degrees in Theater and European history, so I can tell you great stores, talk about Star wars and then The Tempest and finish up with tales of the Victorian woman, and never miss a beat at telling a good joke.

I love creative women, in all forms; artists or musicians or actresses, or even a librarian with a wild and creative spirit. I'm looking for that girl, who is a refined lady; someone who understands that manners are not a lost art.

We sadly live in a world where few people understand the power of words and deeds. Where nothing is trivial and little gestures can take your breath away, where in the hustle and bustle of life, moments can shape everything.

The kind of woman I am looking for is a woman who laughs easily and that understands wit and sarcasm and can respond in kind. My romantic equal/partner will understand the appeal of Halloween and dressing up for the Renaissance fest.

I think she would be wonderful if she appreciates the little things like the fact that when we are out together, no other women exists, I would never do her the dishonor of looking over her shoulder for something better, and she would do the same for me. She will bask in the knowledge that I will know when she changes her hair, I can be a shoulder to cry on, and I will always know how candlelight reflects in her eyes. That it’s ok to spend time in silence with each other or that she can go out and have a girl’s night, I respect her space.

I want a girl who will play board games one night, go swing dancing the next and cry at the movies if she is so moved. Venture across the Oregon beaches and watch Shakespeare under torches and starry nights.

So please drop me a line and lets chat.
What I’m doing with my life
Actually considering a life change, thinking about finishing another degree and going into ASL interpretation.

I am a writer of role-playing games ask me about my game...and gain a cookie or two cool points!
I’m really good at
I am a dangerous weapon of Comedy and Theatrics! My gift that has been given to me by the divine, is my ability to make people laugh and perform on stage.

All hail Dionysus and Bacchus Gods of Wine and Revelry!

I am also gifted with the ability to talk to strangers and people from all walks of life. I am also good at laughing and having a good time.

I will shake the pillars of heaven if must to get things done. I am a hopeless romantic and as such I will tilt windmills with the best of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I talk with my hands a lot, and sometimes slip ASL signs into the conversation.

Am almost always speaking to or at least acknowledging strangers, at the least I can do is smile with some ease at another person, it could make their day that much better. I mean after all, the person you smile at, may be thinking that no one cares about them at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors: The Outsiders, Harry Dresden, Most Shakespeare, The Walking Dead, Things They Carried, Most William Gibson, Interview With A Vampire, The Vampire Lestat, Queen of the Damned, The Madness of Priests,Anything by Mike Mignola. Edgar Allen Poe, H.P. Lovecraft, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, H.G. Wells. Alan Moore so many!

Movies: The Crow, Nightmare Before Christmas, Blade Runner, The Thing, They Live, What We Do In The Shadows, Mad Max: Fury Road, Chappie, Three Musketeers, Pirates I,II, and III, Tombstone, Wanted, Iron Man, Sweeney Todd, Day Watch, Night Watch, Ghostbusters, The 4 Feathers, From Hell, Across the Universe, Big Fish, The Killer, A Better Tomorrow, Buckaroo Banzai, Tron, Flash Gordon, Ice Pirates, Hell Boy, Interview with a Vampire, Millers Crossing, Fargo, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Evil Dead I and II, Army of Darkness, Hair, Jesus Christ Superstar, Look if its Geeky I'm in!

Music: Everything, I'm sure I can find something I like in all most every Gene of music, I just love music and the way it makes people feel.
Dresden Dolls!!! I wanna see them live! Florence and the Machine, Foo Fighters, Tori Amos, Amanda Palmer, Abney Park, Three For Silver. Sammus saw her live, was POWERFUL!

Last Concerts seen: Sammus, Florence and the Machine, The Double Clicks.

Food: My Mom's Lasagna, Chicken, Steak, I have some food allergies so unless it will kill me, I'm ok with it.
Six things I could never do without
1.) Creative Freedom!
2.) Halloween!
3.) My Family
4.) Good Wine
5.) My own imagination!
6.) Music and Films
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why am I afraid of food touching?

Is it true that Cannibals say that people taste like pork chops?

Cake or Death?..Cake Please!

"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”
Dr. Seuss
On a typical Friday night I am
Carousing with friends, karaoke and bar hopping, watching the city come alive.


Reading and enjoying the silence

Star gazing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wear my heart on my sleeve, that I am loyal and warm and loving.
I am really looking for someone worth all the trouble and who thinks I am worth it as well.

I hugged Eddie Izzard, its true!
You should message me if
I strike your fancy!

You want to go out and have the time of your life!

That you understand that life no matter how bad, is still life!

You are a cool geeky girl, must love Halloween!

PS: Some have said my Photos make me not-dateable, but why hide Who I AM? If you don't like that, well then we would never work out.

Love of Karaoke a plus!
The two of us