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My self-summary
Alright, time for the refresh! Spring upfurbish of the profile.
I've done my homework on myself. I'm a fan of clear communication of intentions and agreeing to disagree with love if need be. Life is too short to pretend to be someone we aren't or be surrounded by people who don't see, love and synch with the "True you." I'm omni, multi, poly. I'm married to an empowered wonderful woman who is also the co-pilot to our podcast "The Black Russian Podcast" I'm more Poly than Mono, but i'm more "Be honest with yourself and others. Write your own script" over any template or box. We are evolving human beings and no one style or box will always fit every experience or every circumstance. I'm on OKC to generate Desire, intrigue, heightened energy through conscious flirting and loving banter. I loove love in all forms but if your desire is strictly platonic friendship, feel free to message me on my facebook profile Tion Bukue Torrence. This platform for me is to connect with those who "Feel it" and are curious and playful! Fun Natural Fun
What I’m doing with my life
Living and building, being an optimistic revolutionary. Encourage and empowering real conversation about love, life, growth and positivity. Training daily to remain grateful for all that comes and enjoying every minute of it. Yes even during those low vibration struggle times! Life is good and getting better. Brand managing at a Graffiti/Street art gallery. Making, music, writing on walls, riding my stuntwood. Sharing the art of business with the youth so we are not just armed with creativity but also with the tools turn your art into your empire! The latest lovechild is the The Black Russian podcast. It's been a great platform where we discuss all things love, sex, poly, trust, kink, and beyond. Available on ITunes and podomatic for inquiring minds:)
I’m really good at
Speed scrabble, making people smile, sparking "those conversations" Being a good listener and muse. Respecting someone's opinion. Agreeing to Disagree with love intact. Linking students with teachers. Nerding out on the Marvel cinematic universe. Hugging! mmmhmm
The first things people usually notice about me
My Locks ( hair), goofy smile, my pigeon toes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All malcolm gladwell books, blink, tipping point, outliers, what the dog saw. Nelson george " death of rythm and blues" and "hip hop america"
Russell simmons "life and def" and "do you"
To name a few.
Del the funky homosapien, Roots manuva, Saiian supa crew, Buju banton,Kabaka pyramid, Red rat, general degree, Sade, Teena marie, Dinosaur Jr. Masta ace, Chip fu, Zero 7, Expose, Cover girls, Shannon Lill Suzy
Rodney o and joe cooley.
Szechuan chicken, pad woon sen, bbq galore, strawberry, mango, peach, acai smoothies, (self made) roscoe's chicken and waffles.
Six things I could never do without
Self Love, Good internal guages, Skateboard, The Microphone, Bowling ball, Can of paint ( spray paint), Ableton live, Being Grateful
Malcolm gladwell's insight, My amazing hodge podge family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to curtail passive aggressive movements. How to be brave, be honest and minimize fear based movements.
How to add to the Self actualization revolution so we spend most of our time being who we really are. Badabing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Nerding out, soaking up some love and affection. Conserving energy. Painting Masterpieces or performing, Relaxing at home, watching something Marvel Related, Playing House and pretending im a grown up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no belly button, I don't need you to be "MINE" to feel connected and special. I actually do recieve joy from someone i love thriving and recieving joy. (Yes even if it's from another lover)
You should message me if
You have read my profile and you "Feel it." You are looking for sparks, that added height and depth without Ownership. You understand the relationshiop between messanger and message. You enjoy meeting new people beyond just the surface idle chatter. If you like good sarcasm, jokes, but yet logical, witty and enjoy thinking and smiling. I'm a busy dreamchasing guy so i don't have a lot of time but i have lots of love, light, and energy! If you or looking for one to call "yours" i may not be the "one" . I'm a superfresh companion along your journey though. Yes indeed
The two of us