Hapasurf74
42 Honolulu, United States
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My self-summary
Every woman deserves to have that one gentlemen who makes them feel utterly beautiful inside and out. Each woman I have dated has unique qualities that show their inner and or outer beauty. I am still searching for that one special lady who can see me for my worth. So I end up here.

I am genuine, unique, a hard worker(both in my job and relationships), like to joke around but can be serious, completely honest, and have goals to have a happy family in life.

You ladies have so many guys contacting you, so a lot of you see us nice guys as options(someone to keep your attention until the guy you are really looking for comes along) Just like you, I am not looking to waste my time with someone who is not really interested in me. I get it, you like the attention of a guy, it's entertaining to chat/text/email with someone and get to know them even if you really don't see yourself with that person. PLEASE DO NOT DO THAT WITH ME :)

We're all on the same dating sites lol small island I tell you! hahaha! But I love it here, and I am not leaving island outside of traveling :)

If nothing else we can just meet for coffee and get a feel for each others personalities and see if we're a good fit with the same goals. If nothing else we've made a new friend correct?

Aloha! And have a great day!
What I’m doing with my life
Working and spending time with my little princess. She tires me out more than work does, and I work 12hr shifts. Lol
I’m really good at
-Being happy go lucky
-forgetting people's names even though I know I've seen and talked with you extensively :/
-finding humor in things
-working hard
-loving my daughter
The first things people usually notice about me
Idk I guess you'd have to meet me to find out. Maybe that I'm just genuine with everyone? I like to joke around a be sarcastic, that comes out at work a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I grew up listening to 80's/90's alternative, like some hip hop, but not a country fan at all. I still go enjoy some live jazz or local cover bands every now and then.
I tend to like comedies, some dramas, suspense, but not into horror movies.
I love most foods, I just tend to stay away from spicy or hot. I do like sushi, anything japanese, chinese, italian, korean bbq, and pizza.
The six things I could never do without
-My daughter
-God
-Work/income
-Sleep
-unfortunately my phone
-family/friends/laughter/love/companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-my daughter
-wondering if I'm trying too hard at this online dating thing?
-when I will catch up on sleep....
-the surf, if there's a swell
On a typical Friday night I am
No Friday is typical for me, I am either getting rest for work the next day or burnt out from work and getting ready for my daughter the next day. I work every other weekend, I have more time mid week at times then most.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm maybe that I am addicted to diet coke. Yes I know, I know... "it's so bad for you" ..... :/
You should message me if
You're interested in actually meeting and not take advantage of an easy going honest guy, that will not waste your time. Definitely not looking to hook up :)
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