40 Plano, United States
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My self-summary
I’ve tried writing this a hundred different ways. I think I’ll give open and honest a try this time. I won’t feed you a list of meaningless adjectives, or a line of BS, you’ve read on every other profile; rather, I’ll tell you a bit about the real me. I realize that according to the rules of online dating I’m supposed to be ultra-confident, totally content with my life and the direction it has taken, and here simply to meet new friends and maybe find someone to add to the perfection that is already my life. Isn’t that what we read on most of the other profiles? The truth is I’m a neurotic mess. There are parts of my life I’m happy with. There are parts that are seriously lacking, and I’m obsessed with filling the voids. I’m lonely. I want to find someone to fall insanely in love with. I want to find someone that falls insanely in love with me. I want a partner in crime. A soul mate. I want to come home to one beautiful, amazing woman every day and feel like the luckiest man in the world for it. I want to get married and start a family. I want to buy a house and start a college fund and take horrible family vacations where I say “don’t make me turn this car around” every ten miles until you threaten to divorce me if I don’t shut up. I want to get old, play scrabble on the porch and eventually die having lived a meaningful life full of love. I can’t think of a better way to spend my life. Is that too damn much to ask for? After all, what’s more important than love? Ok, maybe it’s a bit unrealistic, but can’t a guy dream?
What I’m doing with my life
I just moved back to Dallas from Montana. I'm missing the snow and the mountains and trying to figure out where to go now.
I’m really good at
After revisiting my self summary, I would have to say I'm really good at being a bit too forthcoming with things I should probably keep to myself!
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea, but I would like to think that the first thing people notice is my devastating good looks. Ok, that's a load of crap. Maybe the first thing people notice is that I always look a little lost.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read way too much. My favorite book is Saint Maybe by Anne Tyler. I read everything from John Sanford's Prey series to Moby Dick which I reread every year or two. I always get something new out of it.

I love the opera. I go as often as possible.

I like acoustic, folky music like Jose Gonzalez and Neil Young. I love Pink Floyd.

I've been watching Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, Raising Hope, and The Walking Dead on Netflix and Amazon. Sherlock is awesome. And I recently became hooked on Dr Who.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order: Mr Bubbles (Dr Bubbles on a bad day), good books, Juno on blu-ray, Dr Pepper, passionate kisses, chocolate chip cookies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life -- what's missing, what's good, and what's bad. I spend time thinking about how to improve what's good, fix what's bad, and find what's missing.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a typical Friday night, but I'd like to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never know what to say in a first email. I want to say something like "Wow! You're beautiful and I loved x, y, and z from your profile which I actually read because I'm not a total douche. I'm writing because I want to leave no stone unturned in my search for love and not because I'm hoping to nail you on the first date." I never say that though. Maybe I should give it a try.
You should message me if
Anything I wrote resonates with you in any meaningful way.
You're a good listener.
You find me even slightly attractive.
You're not a "Woo" girl.
You're not looking for an 'until dawn do us part' relationship.