61New Port Richey, United States
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My self-summary
I AM LOOKING FOR A FEMALE TO DANCE WITH THAT LIKES TO DO BALLROOM DANCE.. PLEASE CONTACT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED. The above picture is a most recent picture that I have of myself AT AGE 58. The picture is with a former co-worker I am not dating and have never been romantically involved with. I was at the Picked Parrot in Springhill for some dancing and fun with former co-workers. I no longer drink alcohol or do drugs. I am 60 year old divorced male who is a kind and thoughtful person. I have no children I am a recovering alcoholic/addict for the past 30 years. Therefore, I don't drink alcohol or use any mind altering drugs including nicotine. I go to 5 to 6 AA or NA Meetings per week and 2 Coda meeting per week. I also love to play tennis, dance, and watch sports, especially baseball. I dance 2 to 3 times a week doing ballroom dances. My profession is a licensed clinical social worker. I work as a social work as an outpatient therapist at Dr. Patel's office in New Port Richey, Fl . I use to work at Springbrook Hospital as an inpatient therapist in Brooksville, Fl and outpatient therapist in Holiday, Fl from April of 2013 to February of 2017. I also use to do in home therapy in people's homes, nursing homes, and assisted living facilities for 5 years for various contractors. I had been married 19 years and I needed to get to know and love myself before I started dating again. I took 12 months off dating to look and work on myself. I needed to find out my part in the divorce through the 12 steps of Coda recovery so that I don't repeat history. I am looking to meet someone who is kind and thoughtful and likes to help people. I know I am asking quite a bit but I want to date someone who does not drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently started working at an outpatient psychiatric clinic 5 days a week in New Port Richey, Fl in March of this year for Dr. Patel and play tennis on Saturdays when the weather is nice. I also do ballroom dance Wednesday and Friday nights.. I go the multiple 12 step meetings due to being a recovering alcoholic/addict and co-dependent.
I’m really good at
I am good at listening to people and helping them solve their problems. However, I don't try to fix people because working on me is a full time job. I pretty athletic and love to play tennis and dance. I am looking for a person who likes to be physically active and plays tennis and dances. I have also done Yoga for the past year and a half.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people comment on my height.. Part of the reason I am slim in my older age is being lactose intolerant and I also found out I am gluten intolerant. I am allergic to cheese, all dairy products, eggs, and any foods with gluten in it. My body is intolerant to many foods but I am a tolerant person today at this point in my life. In my younger days, I was ashamed about being tall and thin. Now I love and embrace my tall and thin build.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do like to watch murder mystery stories when I am not watching sports. I will watch romance stories with a female companion but not by myself. My favorite books are sports and recovery books books.
Six things I could never do without
I would have a hard time not being physically active with tennis ballroom dance, and yoga. I could not stop going to 12 step group meetings. I could not live without a strong connection with my higher power that I pray to everyday.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about trying to be serene and happy by helping others, especially people who are in the grip of an addictive disease and co-dependency. I truly want to help to get better without trying to "fix" them.
On a typical Friday night I am
I go to perform ballroom dancing or watch sports or a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a very sensitive man who is now very in touch with his feelings due to 12 step involvement for the past 30 years.
You should message me if
You should contact me if you are a people person who is physically active, with ballroom dancing, tennis, or Yoga and does not use alcohol or drugs. I also only plan to get serious with someone if they have a job or have plenty of their own income. If our dating does not work out, please have the self respect and dignity for yourself and me by ending the relationship with me in person and not by e-mail like 1 of my former relationships did after 4 months of seeing her on a very intimate level.
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