I try very hard to be non-judgmental, honest, and kind.
Pretty hardcore Anti-oppressive, third wave feminist politics
Being a huge nerd
The Word for World is Forest (and other classic scifi with a social science sensibility), The Velveteen Rabbit (and other works of philosophy masquerading as Children's Literature), the occasional Great Book (East of Eden leaps to mind), and lots of comics (Mostly Vertigo, Oni press--things like that)
Fargo, 5 Centimeters per Second, All the Ghibli movies, Pacific Rim, Groundhog Day, Tokyo Godfathers, The Girl Who Leapt Through Time
Gilmore Girls, Game of Thrones, Switched at Birth, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Please Like Me
Great Big Sea, Les Cowboys Fringants, and pretty much anything folky...I tend to let the people around me pick the music.
Hearthstone, Dark Souls, Life is Strange, The Walking Dead, Skyrim, The Vanishing of Ethan Carter, Stardew Valley, Civilization
All the food.
Seriously, though, I spend a lot of time in my head. Favourite thinking topics include culture, language, power and violence, rocks, how to imagine other people complexly, grammar, cooking, and old friends
You like cinnamon rolls, but not gender roles
You are super rad (tm) or have ever been labeled an "SJW"