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My self-summary
Synonyms sensuous, sensual, mean relating to or providing pleasure through gratification of the senses. Sensuous implies gratification of the senses for the sake of aesthetic pleasure. Sensual tends to imply the gratification of the senses or the indulgence of the physical appetites as ends in themselves. Which are you: sensuous or sensual?
What I’m doing with my life
Taking a risk, exploring pleasure, living!

I'm a photo-journalist. Recently out of a 15+ year marriage, uninhibited, and very comfortable in my own skin.

Please read carefully - I am NOT interested in hooking up, random threesomes, open relationships, or married men. It does mean at this stage of my life having a healthly sex life is key to my next LTR relationship.
I’m really good at
Kissing, teasing, dancing, photography...
The first things people usually notice about me
Contagious smile, red curls, deep chocolate brown eyes, or the bounce in my step!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Voracious reader. Fiction, thrillers, espionage. Favorite book is Shibumi by Trevanian

Love old movies, sexy movies, foreign films. Breakfast at Tiffany's, Vicky Christina Barcelona, Eat Drink Man Woman, A Walk on the Moon

Addicted to music, sets the tone for everything. Jazz.... bluesy jazz. Female artists... Colbie Caillat picks me, Nora Jones quiets me down, Aretha Franklin and Etta James put me in the mood.

Food... spicy, salty, sweet, tangy - what isn't to love. Street food, fine dining, food made with love...
Six things I could never do without
Passion ...NOT to be confused with empty random sex or hooking up
Smiles, laughter
Soulful food
My camera
The outdoors: hiking, swimming, weekends in the country (Hudson Valley)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I am actually looking for. I guess when it comes right down to it... don't we all ultimately seek the same thing. Respect, companionship, passion, intimacy and one day hope to fall in love again?

Things that puzzle me...
Why most men that choose shirtless photos for their profile pic ...really should not!

Why 30 something's write to me often and not 40 something's.

Why so many write and somehow can't follow through with an actual date!

Why some choose to post photos 10 years old and 20 lbs ago - bait & switch is not endearing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Headed to the country!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I did the naked bike ride with friends in Portland and had a lot of fun!
You should message me if
You are positive ... living in the present not the past. You are emotionally available (and actually available as in NOT married!), have time in your life and want someone to share it with.

You have recent photos (mine are from the last year)... if you aren't willing to post a photo or send me a link to a photo then you don't live dangerously enough to be on my radar and you have something to say beyond hey babe or yo sexy! Come now... Is it really so hard to strike up a conversation? Engage my mind!

It's flattering all the 20 something's that write but at the end of the day I am looking for more than a MILF fantasy ... emotionally and intellectually stimulating not just physically.

You would enjoy a having a new friend.... whether you just want to hang out, do something athletic outdoors (cycling, skating, swimming, hiking - I spend weekends upstate NY), go to the movies, swing dancing, check out a yoga class or go shopping together (girls) ...and not sit at home on a Friday night waiting for someone to text!

Please don't bother to write me if you are married, looking for a hookup or threesome. I'm not interested.
The two of us