I'm a photo-journalist. Recently out of a 15+ year marriage, uninhibited, and very comfortable in my own skin.
Please read carefully - I am NOT interested in hooking up, random threesomes, open relationships, or married men. It does mean at this stage of my life having a healthly sex life is key to my next LTR relationship.
Love old movies, sexy movies, foreign films. Breakfast at Tiffany's, Vicky Christina Barcelona, Eat Drink Man Woman, A Walk on the Moon
Addicted to music, sets the tone for everything. Jazz.... bluesy jazz. Female artists... Colbie Caillat picks me, Nora Jones quiets me down, Aretha Franklin and Etta James put me in the mood.
Food... spicy, salty, sweet, tangy - what isn't to love. Street food, fine dining, food made with love...
The outdoors: hiking, swimming, weekends in the country (Hudson Valley)
Things that puzzle me...
Why most men that choose shirtless photos for their profile pic ...really should not!
Why 30 something's write to me often and not 40 something's.
Why so many write and somehow can't follow through with an actual date!
Why some choose to post photos 10 years old and 20 lbs ago - bait & switch is not endearing!
You have recent photos (mine are from the last year)... if you aren't willing to post a photo or send me a link to a photo then you don't live dangerously enough to be on my radar and you have something to say beyond hey babe or yo sexy! Come now... Is it really so hard to strike up a conversation? Engage my mind!
It's flattering all the 20 something's that write but at the end of the day I am looking for more than a MILF fantasy ... emotionally and intellectually stimulating not just physically.
You would enjoy a having a new friend.... whether you just want to hang out, do something athletic outdoors (cycling, skating, swimming, hiking - I spend weekends upstate NY), go to the movies, swing dancing, check out a yoga class or go shopping together (girls) ...and not sit at home on a Friday night waiting for someone to text!
Please don't bother to write me if you are married, looking for a hookup or threesome. I'm not interested.