I am a happily married man- 31 years- but in a mono-poly relationship. My wife chooses to be monogamous (so far) and I am polyamorous/swinger. We are very happy with each other and our marriage has no secrets and is open. I consider myself pansexual, but bisexual will do too. My bf of 5 years is mostly monogamous too, but he and I do like to play with other men occasionally.
I am trying to learn all I can by talking, asking, watching and LISTENING to others. I have few limits but always mutual respect.
I am also hiv positive. I always play safe, now! If you are truly having safer sex, your partners' hiv poz status (mine is undetectable thanks to LOTS of medicine and healthy life-style) should not matter so much. But you have to decide your limits.
I am active in the metro Detroit BDSM scene. Love it!
I do consider myself to be a well rounded fellow. I have interests in agriculture, science, nature and the arts. I work in the performing arts and enjoy what I do for and as a living, the backstage aspects and also in Info.Tech.
Helped raise a great daughter. My wife and I are a great team and our daughter is a fascinating and engaged young adult!
American Horror Story, Justified, House of Cards and PBS
Radio- NPR almost all the time
my family (wife, boy friend and daughter)