If you are looking for someone who won't add drama to your life, that's good, so am I! The people I surround myself with tend to be happy with their lives. Angry people, and those who feel the world is out to get them, turn me off. We can all control our destiny if we work at it... (obviously, not everything, though)
Happiness is in what you do, not in what you desire.
I have a bucket list that includes learning to fly (a plane), swim with the fish (scuba dive), and have a conversation with my distant cousins in Peru (learn Spanish). But, most of my free time is spent hiking or biking.
Pleasing everyone all the time (mostly)
Stranger in a Strange Land - Robert A Heinlein
Travels - Michael Crichton
Hitchhiker's Guide to The Galaxy - Douglas Adams
Contact - Carl Sagan
Dune - Frank Herbert
Time Enough for Love - Robert A Heinlein
The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
Sahara - Clive Cussler
Harold and Maude
The Abyss (Director's Cut)
2001: A Space Odyssey
The Princess Bride
The Italian Job
Lord of the Rings
Pay It Forward
The Daily Show
I've been mostly listening to Country lately, but I'll listen to just about anything. I grew up on Oldies and Classical, went through a techno then hip-hop stage, and still listen to pop off and on. I prefer something I can sing to.