28South Bend, United States
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My self-summary
"Hello, IT. Have you tried turning it off and on again?"

I was once told that I was the top in the last shot of Inception. There is no telling when, or indeed if, I will fall.

When it comes to love, I am writing my own rule book. Traditional sexual mores are dried husks of a long dead world, if you ask me.

I have many faces. They are all a true version of me in some way. Maybe you'll learn to like one of them. Maybe you'll find a way to love all of them.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in IT for a large university. My office is the frontline of defense for the entire department. I get paid to play with computers and hang out with other nerds. Not a bad gig if you ask me.

When I'm not in a cubicle, my life is dedicated towards building relationships with great people, writing and knitting.
I’m really good at
Finding a good cafe in a town I've never been to
Starting writing projects that I never finish
Avoiding political arguments
Getting along with all kinds of people
Learning something new every day
Laughing with you
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told I have cinematically blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay by Michael Chabon
Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman
The Magicians by Lev Grossman

Star Wars (The original trilogy)
Some Like it Hot

Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries
Black Adder

Anything roasted over an open flame

Riesling (dry or off-dry)
Bordeaux blends
Malbec (specifically from Argentina)

Admiral Fallow
Jukebox the Ghost
Laura Marling

The Importance of Being Earnest by Oscar Wilde
Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead by Tom Stoppard
Cyrano de Bergerac by Edumund Rostand
Six things I could never do without
1. Travelling - I need to explore new places
2. Live music - Spotify, though handy, just isn't the same
3. Friends - the weirder, the better
4. Sex - I mean, really...
5. Trees - I like them, they're pretty
6. Creativity - Mine and others. It keeps things interesting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Knitting projects, writing, music, literary theory, sex, wine, art, friends' problems, family, my job, etc. I just spend a lot of time thinking. And by thinking, I mean worrying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Curled up with my primary partner, eating too much, drinking even more, watching anime and wearing little to no clothing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I fall in love easily. But I fall out of love just as quickly.
You should message me if
You're not afraid of yourself.
The two of us