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My self-summary
I tend to think of myself as particularly boring even though I have a lot to say and not a lot of people to say it to. I don't know what "it" is but I've got it. And I'll totally bring it. Really. Actually, I don't have to bring it. It's already been brought(en). Yeah. That was lame.

So, about me. I've played piano most of my life. I love classical music and listen to it almost exclusively. I have a very limited range of movies I enjoy. Keep Will Ferrel and Owen Wilson away from me. Bring on Josh Hartnett. I like watching terrible gay movies.

I enjoy reading, but I don't do nearly enough of it. The only things I've read in recent memory are composer biographies and cookbooks.

Are you still reading this? I'm sorry. Go do something. Let's see...I enjoy cooking and fine dining. I'm a professional cook and don't see that changing anytime soon. I love playing "chopped" at home. Open fridge, throw ingredients at me, see what happens. But don't talk to me about the Food Network. I don't watch it.

I'm a bit stubborn, a lot independent. Happily partnered, but we're very open and honest with each other. I'm here more for friends than secondary partners. However, if you're a burly, hairy man, I can't promise I won't try to have my way with you.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now? Doing a bit of cooking here and there. Often spending time at the beach. I fully support going naked in public. I like going on walks but never have anywhere to walk to. I don't like walking in circles. I'm trying to become a fitter, healthier guy.
I’m really good at
Playing the piano, cooking, reading, discussion, debate, thinking, arguing, questioning, annoy-ing, rambling, driving, writing, sarcasm, and making lists that are too long.
The first things people usually notice about me
I rub people the wrong way when they meet me. Usually I come off as bitchy (The "I don't like anything" kind of bitch, not the "I hate you because I'm better than you" bitch). I suppose it depends on what situation I'm in when I meet someone as to what they first notice about me. My intelligence comes through, I think. I like big words (and I cannot lie...). I apologize a lot if I like you back (as a friend, pervert).

What's the first thing you've noticed about me here? That I write too much? That I type well?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
American Beauty, Magnolia, Amadeus, Schindler's List, The Lord of the Rings, Spirited Away, Ghost in the Shell, Batman Begins, and The Virgin Suicides, Melancholia.

Favorite book is As I Lay Dying.

Favorite food? Duck. Duck breast, thigh, leg, tongue, tail, fat, liver, heart. Anything duck. Arugula is a distant second.

I can't help but love classical music. I love parts of it so much, in fact, that I'm getting the Tristan Chord tattooed on myself. I love all things Wagner, Puccini, Penderecki, and Chopin. I have gigs upon gigs of the stuff.
Six things I could never do without
Classical music, sheet music, a piano, communication with other people, intelligence, and something to write with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cooking, classical music, opera. Men.
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating good food with good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Uh...I already revealed that I like the hairy ones and that I'm in an open relationship and that public nudity is a-okay, so what's left? You'll have to ask me about that one.
You should message me if
You should probably message me if you're still reading this. How the hell did you manage to get through all of that? I got bored writing it about twenty sentences ago.
The two of us