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My self-summary
Fatter in person. Also, more fabulous. (seriously.. I'm fat ... and if you aren't fat positive, you aren't a feminist so you can fuck off with that nonsense)

TL;DR: feminism, intersectional, fat acceptance, spoonie, radical left, tattoos piercings and bright hair, fatter in real life, extrovert with anxiety, crush bigots and then share cat memes.

I tend to go for radically progressive and compassionate people who have more than a streak of non conformity and are fluent in social justice. I'll admit to kind of being a sucker for piercings, tattoos (ones that aren't sexist, racist, etc), and manic panic hair, but send me a message if you think we'd get along.

I have one tattoo and four total piercings- ears, tragus, septum, and labret with no reason to think I'll stop there. (Update: I had to take my labret out, but I'm hoping to get it redone at a different angle soon)

I want to cuddle on the couch and talk about privilege together.

I like puns.

I'm a reformed romantic and my patronus is Megara... although Pottermore says it's a Deerhound.

I'm a feminist, a fat acceptance activist. I like board games and I love hosting game nights. You name a hair color and I've probably done it. I literally wouldn't hurt a fly and I'm pretty political- yeah, one of those dirty socialists you keep hearing about. I tend to say really weird or ridiculous things which sometimes translates to me being really funny or just really weird with the occasional awkward.
What I’m doing with my life
Singing with Flash Chorus.

Having game nights.

Planning my next tattoos.

Being a spoonie for life.

I'm going to live as much as I can while I still can and I've only for 3 spoons to offer. Let's make them stretch.
I’m really good at
Being opinionated, teaching, singing (maybe?)..I have a ton of crafty hobbies accumulating in my craft room. I mostly good at being empathetic and sympathetic and offering way too much of myself to others.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm fat and have bright pink hair? Depends on the person I guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm kinda embarrassed by how mainstream all this is... but there you have it...

Books - Harry Potter , The Ocean at the End of The Lane, Wicked, Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls

Movies - fantasy, sci-fi, young adult movies that have been made into movies. Anything except horror/gore.

Music - Mary Lambert, The Family Crest, Rihanna, Elle King, Peter Hollens, Wicked (the musical)

TV: Supernatural, Doctor Who, Agents of Shield, Steven Universe

Food: I'm vegan and i do more baking than cooking
Six things I could never do without
1: My son. Full stop.

2: Modern Medicine.

3: Spring

4: People who remind me to stop and live in the moment

5: Connections with people

6: Feeling loved and wanted
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to change the world for the better, helping other people, and improving my mental and physical well being.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably at home trying to figure out what to do.. or making lists.. i love lists.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I drink out of mason jars
You should message me if
You're intersectional. I expect everyone to understand consent really well.

You're so off into the radical left that even your liberal college buddies think you've gone too far.

You think activism is essential to changing the world.

You're fluent in fat acceptance.

I will judge you by whether or not you like cats.
The two of us