I am caring, honest, passionate, with a kid in a candy store kind of excitement about things. I like being with someone who is a touchy feely kind of woman. That kind of contact is just missing from life when you are alone.
On the employment side, I have been working for the same company now for almost 12 years. I also have a strong desire to move on to something new. A friend and I are interested in buying a bar, and then slowly changing it to what we want it to be. The research continues on that issue.
Done raising my son since he's 23 now, so am looking at the rest of my life, and what and who will be in it. I just know I don't want to go through it alone. If I have no one to share it with, then it just seems like such a waste.
I love to use my mind on things as well. Trivia, Jeopardy every night, pretty much anything that involves my mind. It's a terrible thing to waste.
I am also an amazing listener. I have helped many friends through some incredible difficult times in their lives by being the one who would listen, and not judge them, and then lend a hand, or a shoulder to them to help get them through that period. In doing so, I have several life long friends going back more than 30 years. I'm the kind others turn to for support. it seems to give me purpose as well.
In a professional setting, the people I deal with or work with quickly learn that I am always helpful and willing to assist. I generally end up the lead in my area.
Beyond the obvious, people have told me that I have a very gentle easy to approach personality, and that I always make them feel at ease, and that I listen well. Which I agree with.
Movies are too many to list, however a few of my all time favorites are 2001: A Space Odyssey, 2010: The year we make contact, Hunt for Red October, Sneakers, 3 days of the Condor, pretty much any CIA spy movie, or espionage thriller. Sci-Fi list is huge, the Alien Series, Star Trek Series, TV and Film, and books too, Anything to do with time travel,
TV: current faves are Law & Order (any of them), Franklin & Bash, Fringe (now gone), Deadliest catch, Seinfeld, Not into the competitive "reality" tv shows at all. I don't care who's got tallent, who survives, who becomes an idol, or any other "scripted" shows like those.
I do like Family Guy (it's just grown on me over the years), and on late night stuff, I only watch Craig Ferguson because there's little to no script on the show, where as Conan is looking down as his blue cards constantly to know what to say. Ferguson tears his up. It's far less rigid, and I like that.
Music? Where to start....Classic rock, big band Jazz, Swing, Blues, Crooners like Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Michael Buble', Tony Bennett, and the women: Linda Ronstadt, Bonnie Raitt, Billie Holiday, Ella, and many more. Fun bands like Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Stray Cats, and so much more. Then there are the All time favorites, Pink Floyd, Dire Straits, Moody Blues, Steely Dan, and many more.
Food: Love Chinese and Italian food, along with a great steak now and then too. Not real fond of Mexican food, or anything I don't know...
and the feeling of being wanted / desired by someone else. (it adds fulfillment to life.)
How to enjoy life, even as we pass through more difficult times.
And...how to fill the current void in my life. Which is why I am here.
Message me, and we can do it together!