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My self-summary
I am a Big guy, who prefers larger, busty women. I am just being honest. Now that's not to say it's the only thing I am looking for or would accept. We all come in various shapes, sizes, abilities, and personalities. We may find attraction anywhere.

I am caring, honest, passionate, with a kid in a candy store kind of excitement about things. I like being with someone who is a touchy feely kind of woman. That kind of contact is just missing from life when you are alone.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to get through it all with a smile on my face. I never sweat the little stuff, and see the big issues as a challenge. Although I don't push myself too much, I always enjoy a good challenge. I have hobbies in the garage mostly and tinker on things, or actually work on my major car / truck / or motorcycle projects. One major one is on going at this time. I enjoy making things. From custom car parts I need, to art frames, for my son's projects, and more, it's gratifying to labor, and then sit back and see what I have created. It's a good feeling.

On the employment side, I have been working for the same company now for almost 12 years. I also have a strong desire to move on to something new. A friend and I are interested in buying a bar, and then slowly changing it to what we want it to be. The research continues on that issue.

Done raising my son since he's 23 now, so am looking at the rest of my life, and what and who will be in it. I just know I don't want to go through it alone. If I have no one to share it with, then it just seems like such a waste.
I’m really good at
Using my hands. In pretty much anyway that you can think of. From wrenching on my cars, trucks or Bikes in the garage, to welding things, to building other things, to (my favorite) giving long sensual massages that last three hours or more, which have several happy endings for you.

I love to use my mind on things as well. Trivia, Jeopardy every night, pretty much anything that involves my mind. It's a terrible thing to waste.

I am also an amazing listener. I have helped many friends through some incredible difficult times in their lives by being the one who would listen, and not judge them, and then lend a hand, or a shoulder to them to help get them through that period. In doing so, I have several life long friends going back more than 30 years. I'm the kind others turn to for support. it seems to give me purpose as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well that's an easy one. Being 6'4", 450lbs, they have little choice but to notice me! Built like an ex NFL Lineman, little kids look up at me like I'm a carnival ride and either have the look of amazement on their face, or a big Smile. I always return the SMILE. Kids are great.

In a professional setting, the people I deal with or work with quickly learn that I am always helpful and willing to assist. I generally end up the lead in my area.

Beyond the obvious, people have told me that I have a very gentle easy to approach personality, and that I always make them feel at ease, and that I listen well. Which I agree with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books are few: Books by Arthur C. Clarke, Carl Sagan, and stories by Edgar Allen Poe and Rod Serling top my list of favorite writers.

Movies are too many to list, however a few of my all time favorites are 2001: A Space Odyssey, 2010: The year we make contact, Hunt for Red October, Sneakers, 3 days of the Condor, pretty much any CIA spy movie, or espionage thriller. Sci-Fi list is huge, the Alien Series, Star Trek Series, TV and Film, and books too, Anything to do with time travel,

TV: current faves are Law & Order (any of them), Franklin & Bash, Fringe (now gone), Deadliest catch, Seinfeld, Not into the competitive "reality" tv shows at all. I don't care who's got tallent, who survives, who becomes an idol, or any other "scripted" shows like those.
I do like Family Guy (it's just grown on me over the years), and on late night stuff, I only watch Craig Ferguson because there's little to no script on the show, where as Conan is looking down as his blue cards constantly to know what to say. Ferguson tears his up. It's far less rigid, and I like that.

Music? Where to start....Classic rock, big band Jazz, Swing, Blues, Crooners like Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Michael Buble', Tony Bennett, and the women: Linda Ronstadt, Bonnie Raitt, Billie Holiday, Ella, and many more. Fun bands like Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Stray Cats, and so much more. Then there are the All time favorites, Pink Floyd, Dire Straits, Moody Blues, Steely Dan, and many more.

Food: Love Chinese and Italian food, along with a great steak now and then too. Not real fond of Mexican food, or anything I don't know...
Six things I could never do without
Hmmm Good question. This is a dynamic list: beyond the necessities to live I would think:
and the feeling of being wanted / desired by someone else. (it adds fulfillment to life.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Various projects, and the next steps needed to move forward with them.

How to enjoy life, even as we pass through more difficult times.

And...how to fill the current void in my life. Which is why I am here.
On a typical Friday night I am
I do enjoy heading out on a Friday night. usually to a local bar, to have some drinks with friends, people watch, listen to music, play pool or darts, and just generally get out of the house.

Message me, and we can do it together!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a real Kid in a candy store fascination with things. Once you get to know me, you'll understand and find it makes you laugh too.
You should message me if
You want to meet a real nice guy, who prefers curvy busty women, and just loves to have a nice time and enjoy life. Everything has to start somewhere, so why not stop in and say hi, and see what starts here? I appreciate you taking the time to read through this.
The two of us