I'm... different, probably. I can blend in when needed, but my nature has always been to be different from the pack. I also often have views that are very different from what most of society thinks. Whether that is a good or a bad thing depends entirely on your taste.
Also, something you should know in advance, as it is crucial to anything we start: I'm polyamorous, which for me means I can have multiple serious relationships, but I am not (and will never be) looking for monogamous arrangements. So if monogamy is important to you, please move on.
I'm also kinky, which in my case means I practice BDSM as a Dominant (you know... training submissive girls, tying them up, stuff like that).
If you're interested in either lifestyle and want to know more, I'm always open for questions, and I won't bite unless of course you're into that.
Everything else you want to know is probably already in the parts below, but you're always free to ask extra questions, or just send a message to say hello.
At night time, I can typically be found sitting behind my computer, having friends over, reading up on various topics (psychology, sexual ethics, evolution theory...), or hanging out on gothic/fantasy/industrial events or activities of the local BDSM student club Kajira (http://kajira.ugent.be), which I founded some years ago and which has repeatedly hit the news as Europe's first state-funded BDSM group.
If I have to pick something that people tend to find characteristic for me, then it would be that I'm a very chill person who doesn't have problems with anything. I have friends with piercings, tattoos, wearing a dog collar all day, fingering herself on my toilet the first time she came over and admitting it a month later (lol), texting me at 2 AM asking if they can come for a visit (and usually getting a yes answer), ...
So, that should give an idea of both myself and my friends. ^^
Music: mainly music linked to a variety of subcultures (metal, gothic, etc.) and general pop culture. Too eclectic to even give a representative sample.
Food: Korean Gimbap, Chinese chow mein, Indian curry, Italian pizza, Belgian fries, German bratwurst, Spanish sangria, French cheeses, Turkish kebab, Japanese onigiri, ... I like food from all over the globe.
Also, I am that one Belgian not liking chocolate. Yes, I know, there's a special place in hell for me. But I like sitting on the throne, you know.
- the freedom to have indecent thoughts
- the dark side of Tumblr (or of the web in general)
- my inability to count to six (how did I get that PhD again?)
PS: sending the first message is always appreciated. Explicit hints that you're interested are very welcome. I personally dislike contacting people if I don't feel that they're interested, and I may miss your signals sometimes.