If you care about such things, I'm an ENTP.
I like to eat and drink delicious things with people I like. Maybe that's you?
Mostly I'm looking for super awesome dates unburdened by long-term expectations.
But not making cakes. My cakes aren't that great. Maybe you can be in charge of cakes?
Some favorite non-Murakami books from the last few years are The Log of the S.S. The Mrs. Unguentine and The Peregrine.
I love finding new music, but there will always be a special place in my heart for hometown-heroes WILCO. Some other perennial favorites are the Decemberists, the New Pornographers, Neko Case, SLOAN and The Hold Steady. Lately I've been listening to a lot of Bleached, Sleater-Kinney, The Blow and White Reaper
I don't watch much TV, but I've really enjoyed American Crime Story, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, The Sopranos, The Wire, Battlestar Galactica (both versions!) and The Americans.
As far as movies go, anything written by Charlie Kauffman goes to the top of the list (except for Anomalisa, which I didn't like). But I also liked I Am Love, Spotlight, Tokyo Story, Melancholia and anything from Werner Herzog, Errol Morris or Tarantino.
I liked The Big Short more than is reasonable.
Food is a big part of my life, and French food is my first love. But I also have a special affinity for Thai and Japanese. When I cook, I try to stay true to the classics or cook ingredients to their maximum potential. I try to stay away from gimmicks.
I have a lot of wine. Too much, really.
The women in my family
A good pair of headphones
...you KNOW you're great.
...you know everything is more beautiful when you have to work to see it.
... this cartoon depicts a dynamic you like, even if you don't like everything about it (NSFW, contains animated nudity): https://imgur.com/a/OOv8k