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My self-summary
Hmm, a little bit about me... First, I want to make clear my relationship status and my intentions on this site. I am happily living with my boyfriend of two years, we enjoy a loving, open relationship. This means that we share the freedom of indulging in everything from flirtations to sexual encounters outside of our own relationship. I love to meet new people, have amazing conversations, enjoy food, film movies and connecting with others both mentally and physically.

My demeanor is gentle, calm and I'm pretty laid back most of the time, but I'm a passionate and driven person, I work hard and believe that absolutely anything is possible. I've no patience for laziness and attitudes of self entitlement.

In complete contrast to my I-love-life positive nature (to clarify, I imagine my character more as bittersweet chocolate over toffee rather than say, cotton candy or bubble gum) I'm completely drawn to caustic wit, oddities and the darker side of life. I love urban decay, old industry, abandoned factories and institutions. I'm fascinated by history, language, science and plants and am obsessed with understanding how things work. I love elegance and grace but also appreciate the less savory side of things :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am self employed as a jewelry designer, and am thoroughly enjoying all of the perks, travel, creative expression, sleeping in and meeting fabulous people.
Unfortunately I do tend to work a little too much.
I’m really good at
I've been told that I'm good at making people feel accepted and at ease, inspired and loved. I know for sure that I'm pretty good at figuring out how things work.
The first things people usually notice about me
Unless you're colour blind, I'd have to say my hair would most definitely be the first thing you'd notice about me- can't really miss it, especially on a sunny day.
As well, I have both a full sleeve and half sleeve tattoo which don't go unnoticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Unfortunately I haven't had much time to read lately, but I'm a big fan of comics, I adore Neil Gaiman, William Gibson, Neal Stephenson. I enjoy mysteries and detective novels, stories about explorers and pirates, sci-fi, vintage steampunk and cyberpunk tales.
My favorite video games:
Fallout 3 and Fallout 3 New Vegas, Deus Ex and Deus Ex 3 (haven't had much time to play) Thief 1 and 2, Psychonaughts, Beyond Good & Evil, Daxter, Death Jr, Omikron, Systemshock and Bioshock
I always have a hard time choosing favorites, but the first movies that come to mind are- there are tons more though:
Attack the Block, Blade Runner, The Dark Crystal, The Batman movies (minus Batman Forever and Batman & Robin), Let the Right One In, Bronson, La Cité des Enfants Perdue, The original Star Wars trilogy, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Angel Heart, Labyrinth

Currently I've been enjoying:
It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The League, Breaking Bad, Carnivale, Twin Peaks, Sons of Anarchy, Arrested Development, Game of Thrones

For music I'm all over the place:
The Flatliners, The Distillers and Spinerette, Underworld, The Clash, Rob Zombie, Depeche Mode, Metric, Prodigy, the Creepshow, Skrillex, White Stripes, The Decemberists as well as a lot of old school punk, industrial, goth, dub, electronica, breakbeat electro, dubstep, and even a bit of folk and bluegrass depending on my mood.

Six things I could never do without
As things have a tendency to come and go, I suppose I'd say that I thrive on good food, adore music and dancing, love my friends, my family and my cats. I live for travel, new experiences, creative expression, sensuality, sunshine, good conversations and bathing by moonlight. Oh, and sex is pretty awesome too, obviously!
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, working late in the studio, curled up watching movies on the couch or, if it's warm out, getting delightfully inebriated and doing some urban exploration.
But really, I don't limit any of the above to Friday nights- one of the benefits of being self employed!
The two of us