Why we are so lonely in a big crowd of people looking for relationship ?
OKcupid wrongly labeled me "conservative".
I am not in usual political spectrum. I am unifier, pace maker, negotiator. I love you all :people with strong opinion about the other side.
I am trying to help you understand each other.I am the guy siting on the fence and trying to catch stones flying over.
I am not centrist or libertarian. I am wearing white band on my arm with red cross on it. You are all humans and your range of opinion is natural to me. We are stuck with each other on the ship called Planet Earth. We all are descendants of one mother. I call you my siblings and is no room for hate for me.
Substantial number of educated people answered that the Earth is bigger then Sun. We have problems America !!!
My favored people are those who are not afraid to challenge their own views and are able to understand opponent position. I call them: open minded.
Please read my entire profile before you contact me or respond to my message. I am serious and responsible in my actions, so I like to avoid low chance relationships and disappointment that follow. We need to take a risk however so be informed before you move.
I am very open and honest I will let You know me very quickly but it doesn't mean that we move with relationship very fast. I prefer slow and deep.
If You read my profile, tests and compare our answers carefully You will a have a good idea of who I am and how we may relate to each other.
I am extroverted, intuitive, feeling, perceiving or in another words expressive, introspective, friendly, probing (ENFP).
I am looking for an intelligent, kind, abstract or analytic thinking Lady for long,long relationship.
My interests: economy, finance, stock market, physics, programming, philosophy, psychology. I like: nature, people, travel, architecture, computers, green technology,home building, dancing, recreational sports, martial arts, books, intimacy, photography, self improvement, dogs, solutions to social problems, fitness, longevity and some more.
I am not interested in: team sports or watching sports, fiction in TV or literature, hazard, hunting, drugs and intoxication.
In TV I watch mostly documentaries and educational programs on occasion.I put my TV back in to the box 4 years ago and not missing it.
I am highly attracted to kindness, intelligence, tolerance and abstract thinking.
Turn offs: those who are intolerant, hypocritical, dishonest and fanatical. I do not find large tattoos attractive..
In relationship I am looking for mutual: love, partnership, support, understanding, mentoring, learning, exploring, pleasing, motivating, communication.
I hope together We can enjoy some of these: travel, dancing,fitness; exploring metropolitan areas, towns , villages,national and state parks, nature, back roads, museums, galleries, operas, cabarets, book stores, live music clubs, guided tours; recreational sports,sunsets, warm nights ,clear sky at night in remote areas, cool sun rises, new and old friends, long talks, silence, hugging and kissing, doing boring but needed stuff together, anything together...
I am willing to relocate for the right relationship.
English is my second language, but I'm in it as I have lived in the US for 37 years.Let me make you laugh with my jokes, play on words, and dry humor.
I am looking for a life long relationship. Speaking for myself: life is not worth living its pleasures without sharing.
I have to come to realization that relationships are the most important thing in life.. Are you resonate with that?
I am looking for a tender, loving, caring, dedicated relationship which will grow and deepen over time.
What is critical to me to me is the dedication to create and sustain that relationship.
We should be old enough to know that two cooperating people can overcome most obstacles, so current life circumstances are not important. We should know that beauty is in eyes of beholder so appearance is not a crucial factor. In our age, small difference in age are meaningless as long we are in same life stage. My point is that: I am looking for what inside of you and how we can match. I intend to look deep and neglect shallow stuff.
Right now I am going to school for computer related certifications. I am also doing small remodeling and renovation projects to supplement my finances.
When asked what surprised him most about humanity, the Dalai Lama answered...
"Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then he dies having never really lived."
Being objective; like it or not.
Finding 'out of the box' solutions.
Seeing something good in everybody.
Contrarian discussions. (Devil advocate)
Challenging people's stand points.
I was told that I have magic hands when comes to touch.
Please Understand Me by David Keirsey.
I read classics at school and now mostly educational stuff and very little fiction.
Movies: documentaries, science, history, nature, travel, technology. I watch very little TV in free time.
Music: more or less everything except rap and heavy metal.
Food: Everything is changing, I used to eat everything abusing sugar and coffee.
Now mostly vegetarian with exceptions.. No ideology attached to it, still work in progress.
Physics and structure of Universe. Economy - what win at the end, globalization or protectionism? People and widening differences. Personalities and how different we can be one from another. Global problems and which direction they will grow? Self improvement and my own barriers. Travel and how to finance it. My current and future family. Energy self sufficient homes. New social order replacing current outdated ones. How to convince people to learn? How to bring back criminals to society? How to end "lobbing" in Congress and stop corruption?
How to switch from fighting wars to teaching by example?
How to turn climate warmup to our advantage?
How to make a dwelling inside an asteroid?
How to make education free and how to fiance it?
Do we need new global common language or push for English to be global and universal?
Should we paint roofs silver to reflect sun or should we plant vegetation on a roofs to combat climate warmup?
I am also thinking about having two homes, one north and one south so I can live in perpetual summer.
I am also thinking about not having home at all. Traveling full time. Earth is so big and life so short.
Why in our age most women are superficial ? Non of my answers fit.
I am not competitive but cooperative.
I am lover not fighter.
I am disorganized daily but good planner of future.
I need to be in relationship to unlock my potential.
Or You are idealist or rational.
Or You are huggable and kissable.
Or if We are high % match.
Or if You like to discus any topic I listed in my interests.
Or You need to know more about me.
Or if You read my answers and didn't find deal breakers.
I put honest effort to describe myself, so be fair to.
If You message me, I am interested only in who You are, not what You have, not how You look and not what Your circumstances are.
I don,t care how many eyes, limbs or breasts You have.
I don't care if You can't hear me or have any health condition not caused by Your negligence.
Don't be restricted by age as long You are not in my daughter or mother age.
Warning. If Okcupid is showing that I am on-line it not necessarily means I am around my running computer.
If You got to this point I'd like to hear from You anyway.
Thanks for your patience and persistence.