56Fairview Heights, United States
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My self-summary
OK, I am updating my profile after thinking about what I want to do with my life so here goes…..New year, new profile.
I thought that I was done with looking for a partner to share my life with, and all I wanted was a FWB (Friend With Benefits), I was wrong. I don’t need a partner, I want a partner. I want someone who I can come home to and share my thoughts and wants with. I want someone who will listen and hear what I have to say, and not just hear me talking. I want someone that can tell me what they feel and not what they just what they thing I want to hear. I want to find some to laugh with, cry with, have fun with, and console each other. I want someone to travel with, to sit on the couch and veg out with. Someone to go to the park or zoo, a museum or art gallery. I like doing all the things that everyone enjoys doing, but I don’t enjoy doing them by myself.
I am looking for the woman who will motivate me when I need it, not nag me and tell me what she thinks I need to do. A woman who says thank you when I do something nice for her and accepts my thanks when she does nice things for me. A woman who likes the simple things in life as well as the luxury things in life. I’m not looking for someone to change me into something I’m not, but to accept me for who I am. I am looking for the same thing in you, I don’t want you to change for me, I think life would be better if we complemented each other.
The subject that people don’t talk about but always think about, sex. I’ll be honest, I like sex, and I want to find someone who likes sex also. I am also looking for a lover, someone that I want to wake up with in the morning. A woman that will spoon with me on cold nights and cold mornings. Someone I can be intimate with, on a level better than just sex. I am looking for someone who likes to hold hands, steal kisses in public, and maybe occasionally going too far if the opportunity presents it. I also like holding hands and kissing in private, I just don’t want that to be the only place where it is done.
If you have any questions, please ask, I’m an open book and will always give you an honest answer. Take a chance, what’s the worst thing that could happen? Well it won’t happen because of me…
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am trying to decide what I want to do with my life for the next 10 years, and then retire for good.
I’m really good at
Avoiding doing things that I don’t want to do.
Six things I could never do without
1. A sense of humor; never take live to seriously.
2. Friends and family; keep those who mean something to you close, you’ll never regret it.
3. A cell phone; without my electronic leach, how will I know what is happening in the world?
4. A car; public transportation is useful, but I like to go where I want when I want.
5. Adventures; live would be boring without something new every once in a while.
6. A beautiful woman; I’m working on this right now, are you willing to help me out?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I want to be, what I want to do in 10 years when I retire for good.
I also think about whipped cream, chocolate syrup, steam showers, ice cubes, sound proofing my walls, and who I want to spend my retirement with. Wait that might be my most private thing I'm willing to admit, I sometimes get them confused.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am dyslexic; reading things that use different types of fonts makes it difficult for me to stay interested. I am also a terrible speller, and run most things through spell check before sending them.
You should message me if
You want to meet someone new, think we might have something in common, need someone to come over and kill a spider, or would like to go out and have a meal and light conversation. I promise I don’t bite, at least not where it is visible.
The two of us