40Albuquerque, United States
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My self-summary
I don't have much to say about this; So why am I here you ask? A quick break from never ending work. A look around for a dinner date.
I am here to meet you. Right?

It is my nature to give more than I take.
Never have I been
Right Now is no different
Deltas bridged forever
No one travels
Along this way but I,
This autumn evening.
Independent thinker
Difficulties rippling toward
Inhalation, Exhalation
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to find myself and a new me.
I have a few ideas on this, but have not inacted them yet.
Work is all consuming if I let it.

I do stuff and things
I'm good at being myself
Honor to be me

I work, I eat, I walk, I learn, I sleep.... I work,
I’m really good at
Doing things. Fixing things, Making a safe home from myself and those I love. I cook well, when I desire to.

I learn fast and and capable of much, I do tend to get bored.

Cautiously I glance
I find another problem
Behold cursed future
The first things people usually notice about me
Proceeds to the second thing. But really, my quietness.
I am an observer and often see things others don't. Seeing the good and potential is my focus most time time. I can't help but to see a lot of poor choices, in those cases I try to exercise my mind a bit and try to figure out the root causes that lead the poor choices.
Darkended dreams
become modern grapes of wrath
reaping a bitter

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Are constantly changing. Recently read about Owsley and Me: My family. Fascinating look back at the 60s.
I've read over twenty books this year. Gold star?
A dead chrysanthemum
and yet - isn't there still something
remaining in it?
Silence--a strangled
Telephone has forgotten
That it should ring
Six things I could never do without
Dogs, Water, Caffeine, Music, Home and Travel (I'm contrary)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, How early it is at 5:30 Am (Yawn), Macroeconomics, The state of the world in general. How to do things step by step, and if I can't envision that I tend to work backwards reverse engineering the challenge... Do you see that in my profile?
On a typical Friday night I am
Fixing on the house or some other half broken object. Sending post cards to a select group of old friends. I do enjoy going out to an occasional show. Theater, movies, observatory... I've stopped going to music concerts the last few were disappointing.

I do's and I don'ts...

I do not drink. I am okay with going to a bar, however I like a nice quite upscale bar. I do not like noisy busy bars.

Camping is but I prefer hotels. On the same accord Burning Man is not for me. I like the idea but the realities of it out weigh the goods.

This is a big one I know. I have a daughter she is 18 and off to college. I do not intend on having another. In the end it comes down to me being selfish. I would and might make a great father again, but that is not my priority. I do however reserve my option to change my mind and if you think there is good reason for me to you should talk to me about it.

I would call myself a sex-positive person. Meaning lots of things such as sex being a good and healthy emotional act, also I looked up the wiki page for sex positive and it seems to fit me pretty well. Although I am not always comfortable talking about it I encourage talk with honesty and on and on.
Example. I like having sex in the morning or day when I have more energy and am not tired. Outrageous I know, but the point being I am comfortable with who I am and not ashamed of my wants and such. What are the shadows and fantasies in your mind and would you like to develop a relationship strong enough that you feel comfortable talking about them?

I have some, I would like more. Money is not a primary driver in my life security and stability is, which often comes back to money. I would love a partner who makes equal or greater than I, but would gladly support someone who is following there passion and doing constructive things.

Compassion & Empathy.
I got it. It is important to me that you do too.
Example. I truly care about animals and there well being. From spider relocation (rather than smashing) to volunteer work for animal shelters.

Are you really reading all this? If so you should probably message me and say hello!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was recently put back on the market after a wonderful 11 years when we found ourselves in two very different worlds. What does does this mean to you??? Yes, your probably correct. Is that going to be your determining point? Forward thinking!
You should message me if
If you would like to chat/talk a little.
If you would like to meet me for dinner sometime.
If you think we might be a good match.
If you are compassionate, empathetic, and are willing to be honest with me.
I'm not living in NM, I am in CA.
If you have gotten this far then you should Message Me.
The two of us