61Hayward, United States
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My self-summary
After a lifetime in New York City, I became sick of the snow and cold and now live in the San Francisco Bay area, where the weather is fine but the earth tends to move on occasion. I've been on a Wiccan/pagan path since 1977. Do alot of walking, reading and love going to hear live music, likely because I have no musical talent of my own. I am a gentleman, intelligent and I think I have a good sense of humor (others would disagree). My friends say I'm quirky, I'm sure that's a nice way of saying something else but I'm not sure what.

I am Thoughtful, Romantic, and Optimistic
What I’m doing with my life
I usually enjoy my job. I ask people for money, although I guess the technical title of grant writing and prospect research sounds sexier. I do what I can to give back, but other than that I just like doing what expands my horizons, piques my interest or just makes me happy.
I’m really good at
I write well and can hold a pleasant conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
They never tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
That covers a lot of ground. I like to read a very wide variety: classics, urban fantasy, histories, politics, science. Music I like just about everything (haven't heard any rap or hip-hop and very little country that I like) but favorites: jazz, classical and Celtic. Food, yes I like food very much. I have been a vegetarian from about 31 years.
Six things I could never do without
Air, coffee, water, books, food, friends. Although a seventh would be sex and I'm not sure if coffee should come before or after air.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Way too much, and nothing I'm going into here. Leave me some sense of mystery.
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies widely, depending on the night, the situation and the company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
See that part "I spend alot of time thinking about".
You should message me if
If you'd like to.
The two of us