53Atlanta, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an offbeat kind of guy who works in a creative field. I like to think I'm a musician, but others might take issue with that. Movies, video games, music and books usually take up my private time.....if I'm with someone I usually like good conversation and fun times.

I am dominant, submissive, and all things inbetween.

I'm poly, and without going into too much detail....I'm the secondary to two wonderful women who are aware that I am seeking new friends, lovers, and playmates here. I am also bisexual, lean mostly towards women for the most part, but sexually and politically I am pretty damn queer (I also REALLY love musicals... like that means anything). And I'm an atheist. I'm not going to make fun of or put down anyone for their well thought out and sincere belief system, but if any mention of God is the first thing on your profile, we might not get along.

Atheist, bi, and poly......the big trifecta. I hope all that piques your interest instead of scares you away.... but if it does, so be it. I am what I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm trying to change my professional directions....the economy has thrown my business upside down and I'm taking that as a sign to expand my horizons. It's looking like that might mean some school or technical education.

I'm a video editor with some graphic design skills....but I'm thinking a direction towards photography might be in order. Or maybe working my chops up and getting more gigs playing sax.

When I'm not working or daydreaming about a new career I'm with my son who is the light of my life right now. He's 14 and all the things a 14 year old should be......and all of them magical.
I’m really good at
Seeing both sides of any issue....my devil's advocate side even drives ME up the wall sometimes.

I'm also pretty good at seeing the humor (albeit dark at times) in just about any issue. I'm the guy with the wry (and profane) comments at the funeral. I am also available for children's birthdays and bar mitzvahs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no earthly idea how to answer this question. I'm told I have nice eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It would be hard to list all the things I might call favorite but I'll try to give you the gist of my entertainment likes and dislikes.

Movies: I'll watch pretty much anything, but if left to my own devices a night of Netflix would probably include either an old musical, a superhero film, a comedy, a classic film noir, or a good old action flick. I do tend towards popcorn flicks to get stupid to when I go to the theater but I do like to be challenged intellectually sometimes.

Books: I'm one of those with a bowed and groaning "To Be Read" shelf. I like sci-fi and fantasy, biography, mystery/thriller, or sex education/lifestyle non-fiction. Dirty stuff too.

Music: I'm all over the place and won't even try to pin it down here. Let's just say my top ten stations on Sirius are Underground Garage, Willies Roadhouse, Classic Vinyl, First Wave, Hair Nation, BPM, The new Beatles Channel, the 70s, the 40s, and NPR.

TV: again another eclectic melange....I'm happy that Twin Peaks and X-Files are back and I just raced through Billions.

Food: Sushi, Mexican, Italian, and burgers are the go to bunch. I like to experiment but I have a bit of a sensitive stomach so I have to take baby steps.
Six things I could never do without
my son, music, a fast Mac, something interesting to read or watch, someone fun to be with and time enough to love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the fuck is up with some people. And when's dinner?

And who the fuck let Donald Trump have a shot at taking this country down. I weep for the idiots out there who seem to think he has anything substantive to say. And if that's you.....Go away.
On a typical Friday night I am
with friends, playing a gig or at a movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
ask me
You should message me if
Anything I've said interests you. I'm not like most guys. If you like most guys, you might not like me.....And that's ok. Thanks for reading this far and good luck on your search for fun and happiness, whether it's with me or anyone else. We all deserve it.
The two of us