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My self-summary
Be in the moment. Learn from your past but don't let the past take over the present. Plan for the future but don't forget to have fun in the present.

And let kindness be your guide.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my child to be a strong independent woman.
Planning my next vacation to anywhere with topaz waters and azure skies.

Work is a small part of my life but my passion is being a scuba diver. Why is this important? I look for places I have never been to, where there is no internet or mobile service, and make new friends for life. When you are with me, you will understand why I go look for sharks and why I want you to share the exhilaration of seeing them If we are lucky we will see new animals that we have never seen before, or behaviors that makes you go wow! When you are diving with me, your memories will be about the time a 15 foot manta ray swims next to you while they are feeding, or the sea lion came to play while you are looking for lobsters in the kelp forest. When we are not in the sea, we will be looking at the sea for hours without having to say a word.

But alas, the ocean is far away. Land bound, I mow my lawn, go to work, and rescue pigeon (ok, one pigeon). I ride my bike so I can eat that pork belly sandwich but the solitude of grinding the gears is good too. I took over my daughter's Xbox so I can do Yoga (yes, there is an app for that). I also enjoy exchanging new discoveries with good friends over food or coffee.
I’m really good at
Knowing what's important and letting go of things that don't matter.

Empathizing; listening skill is main part of my job.

Sitting down with children to explain very difficult concepts; I love the aha! & eureka! moments.

My super power is to freeze time; I use my photography and video skills to share with other parents.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are too many books, and too little time.

I am loving Cosmos and Your Inner Fish. I like almost all NOVA and Frontline shows. For comedy, I like The Big Bang Theory, the Daily Show and Colbert Report. I like Downton Abbey for its brilliant writing.

Chinese food, but since I am Chinese, I just call it food. I like Thai, Viet, Indian, and Japanese. There are no Malaysian restaurants, so I bring home about 5 pounds of it around my waist when I return to Dallas.
The six things I could never do without
I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.


Joy from within.



I spend a lot of time thinking about
I read something in the travel magazines or blogs, and I think how many hours will it take to get there. I am drawn to clear blue waters with gentle waves because I can't wait to get my face into warm caress of the sea; jumping out of a perfect seafaring boat doesn't seem logical but neither is my hope to encounter sharks.
You should message me if
If you are ready to be in a loving and trusting relationship. You don't live in the past and the present is more important than what has not happened yet.