HastingsGhost
28 Colorado Springs, United States
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My self-summary
We're moving to Colorado Springs from DFW in September!

I believe in simplicity. Many philosophers make good arguments in its favor.
I love thunderstorms. I've been much more sensible and calm lately.
I tend to get caught up in things and forget where I am, especially when it's conversation.

Right now I'm in a relationship with HKara and it is fabulous. We're interested in entering a poly relationship with a third person, but we're not in any hurry. We're pretty open-ended as to a man or woman, but we're always looking for friends or interesting people.
What I’m doing with my life
Paying rent. Dreaming of starting a band or getting back into shows.
I’m really good at
I have a few decent monologues now. I'm still a pretty good tenor.

Laughing until I cry.
The first things people usually notice about me
I was once told I'm really laid back. Now I'm told I'm really intense. Both times I was told that I'm very free.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Romance of the Three Kingdoms. The Tao of Pooh. Gormenghast. Pratchett. Historical fiction. Sci-fi paperbacks. Alan Moore taught me superheroes are fascists. Currently reading The Wake (Kingsnorth). A Song of Ice and Fire (We Do Not Show).

Wilco. Daft Punk. Hanggai. Nujabes. Snoop Lion. Frank Zappa. RHCP. The Decemberists. Neil Young. Mahler. Radiohead. Bastille. Gunship. I'm really into vaporwave and synthwave right now and looking to buy instruments again.

Napoleon Dynamite. Apocalypse Now. Four Lions. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. American Psycho. No Country For Old Men. Anything ripe for a good mocking. Baz Luhrmann. Blade Runner. Alien. Kurosawa, Zhang Yimou. BoJack Horseman. Breaking Bad. Downton Abbey. Augenblick Studios. Sealab 2021. Space Ghost. South Park. The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert. David Lynch.

Vegan cooking. Vaporized trees. Street art. Go.
The six things I could never do without
My PC, I built this with my own two hands and you will pry it from them when they're cold and dead.
Lunch. It's the best meal of the day.
Laughter. It's a human necessity.
An audition to go to, a show to be in, something to do creatively. I slide into depression when this isn't the case.
Video games. It is difficult to find a more efficient fun delivery system.
Just getting myself a little something every now and then. A decent meal, replacing something that's needed it, small expenditures to take advantage of my participation in the cash economy and steadily reduce the entropy in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Small, positive-positive choice dilemmas.

How I would play a role that I'm watching

What is the next right action.

New recipes. Cooking is love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Crashing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a big softie at heart. I tend to tear up at happy endings or emotional crescendos or when the music swells and the pictures are pretty when I see movies and plays.

In this same vein I'm also a shameless cat person. My baby boy is my baby who never grows up, that's the only way I can explain how he's been able to get away with waking me up at 3AM because he's hungry for eight years.

The honest truth is I'm way more open when asked directly about something so most of the privater stuff I've admitted on this site is buried in my answer explanations.
You should message me if
You want to smoke or go do something.

You think synth-, vapor-, and retrowave are the hot shizz.
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