30 Greensboro, United States
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My self-summary
"Zen has no goal; it is a travelling without point, with nowhere to go. To travel is to be alive, but to get somewhere is to be dead, for as our proverb says, 'To Travel well is better than to arrive.'", They Way of Zen by Alan Watts

In this way, I am totally Zen and my natures are akin to the solitude ways of the elephant in the forest, though always hoping to just be a social butterfly.

I am an adventurer, a psychonaut, and a mad scientist.
What I’m doing with my life
I moved back to the east coast to be closer to my family after living in Washington for five years with three of them in Seattle. I am essentially a care taker for the time being.

I have a background in computer science, mathematics, physics, and religion/philosophy. I moved to Washington to work in bioinformatics which also took me to Seattle. While in Seattle, I also worked as a software developer for awhile and for an even shorter period, doing work-trade in a small community where we had gardens, a nursery, and some different crafting/arts.
I’m really good at
Laughing, especially when it's not appropriate.
Climbing trees.
Taking risks.
Explaining things in an alternative manner.
Driving for long periods with few breaks and little sleep.
The first things people usually notice about me
More recently, it's my addiction with inversions (yoga). Normally it's my long hair or my silly laughs.

Right now my pictures are a good bit out of date and I am going for the Sikh look with long hair and beard (no I am not Sikh). I might switch over to Dothraki look with beads in the beard. I hear my hair is fun to braid but I am pretty much incompetent at such things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dhammapada, I am a Strange Loop, The Fractal Geometry of Nature

Meet Joe Black, Fantastic Planet, Plug & Pray, The Nature of Existence, Paprika

Star Trek, Hannibal, Dead Like Me, Daria, Battlestar Gallactica

Grimes, Yelle, Imogen Heap, Chromeo, Die Antwoord, Mika

Sushi, Pizza, Cheese, Bacon
The six things I could never do without
1) The void that both wonder and creativity spring from and all other forms of generation/creation.
2) Perceptual freedom and the ability to have a "belief".
3) The yin and yang of science and faith.
4) The beauty and humor behind finding truth in absurdity.
5) The ineffable beauty that any communication between you and me has something "lost in translation".
6) Numbers... how else would I have made this excellent list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Evolutionary Theory On Sexual Fluidity: Why Women Are More Likely To Have Same-Sex Hookups Than Men

I enjoy thinking about evolution. The evolution of the stars, humanity, individual lives, sexuality, spirituality, and all paths. I like evolution because everything is always in flux, everything is always changing. The more we try to persist as one particular thing in life, the more life will remind us, that the only thing that persists is something greater than ourselves -- which is in ourselves, as the force that is the continuation of all the things around is in life. Life is not about being selfish, it's about symbiosis, growth, and so like a foolish dreamer, I wonder about nonsensical ideas, such as world peace and the pursuit of greater equality in all aspects of life, with respect for evolving harmony through diversity. So if there is one thing I spend a lot of time thinking about it's love, how is it that such a process, evolution continues, or begins in the first place, the source to such wonder, always seem to be love (at least as long as I persist in asking the question in a humane way) but in saying that word, we would need to have many to describe the totality of the experience because our language so poor at describing all the implications of this word, "love". Even more, words may truly not be enough, one may have to experience different types of "love", to be made aware of them.
On a typical Friday night I am
"I did absolutely nothing all day and it was everything I thought it could be"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am sincere but I try to avoid being serious.

I am poly-curious -- specifically I feel passionate about "free love" and would like to know if I could be a compersionate lover.
You should message me if
Just friends? Just enemies? Starstruck lovers?

Only one way to know, if you take the time -- I will too.