But I deeply believe in having a life outside of work. I do most of that with sports: pick up basketball, rock climbing, yoga, golf, weightlifting, anything I can. Guaranteed to be doing one or two of these things 5 to 6 days of the week. Mostly what I would spend in a relationship I spend doing dude stuff, something I recognize as compensatory but that I really love. I also love reading, guitar by myself. But I'm still young so I love getting loose some nights, going to a show, great bar or dance floor, some Artbeat stuff, the odd festival in town or on the outskirts. Definitely a fun loving guy looking for someone who has simple pleasures and deep and varied capacity for enjoyment.
That's job/hobbie front. Then there's this whole living life to the fullest thing on the spiritual side. Trying to be good to others, to myself, better with family. Doing and becoming good is the long and the short of it. Results vary from day to day.
Movies: die hard, one flew over the cuckoos nest, network (all time fav), good, bad, ugly, Casablanca, dark knight, raging bull, pride and prejudice, blazing saddles, caddy shack, new Star Trek films, il postino, Amelie, midnight in Paris, Annie hall
Music: 70s funk all the way, blues, classic rock, Spanish guitar, disco to be general. Ac/dc, van morrison, Tom waits, the new master sounds, Rolling Stones, Beatles, arcade fire, the strokes, cat Stevens, the band, the temptations, al green (!), Stevie wonder, wu tang, notorious b.i.g. (2nd all time), bob Dylan, LCD sound system, talking heads, bruce springsteen, the list goes on...
Food: whatever I'm cooking outdoors. And chipotle.